u/PersonalSeat9618

She’s willing, I think, just very confused. What’s a good way to explain this kink to her without just saying “tell me about your slutty past”? And maybe explain the WHY behind it would help make her understand more.

I struggle to put the why into words, I just know I find it extremely hot.

Title, basically. Usually only a tame story from a long term relationship (ex, he used to bend over his gaming chair and rail me, random fun nights w her ex she remembers). She’s got quite the past at frats and other random hookups.

Obviously don’t want to push her and turn her off of the idea, but anyone have suggestions on ways to gently guide it?