u/Personal_Leave_4716

Honestly, starting to lose hope in this sub. Seems like more and more bot/scammers are popping up with fewer and fewer real people, on either side. However it's my birthday tomorrow, so i'll use my wish to see if I can find something.

I'm newly 44, obligatory married and not looking to change anything. Brown hair, goatee, tall, heavy, cuddly, caring, kind, a bit needy.

You? Close in age, I do have a love for bigger women and gingers, though neither are deal breakers. Just be available more than once or twice a day.

What I'm looking for is probably the same shtick as everyone else. Looking for someone fun to connect with and create a deep and meaningful connection. Been ghosted more than a few times and would really rather you not waste both our time. The real world definitely gets in the way, however if you cannot put time into this I would prefer you not start. I'm already is a communication drought relationship, I'm not really looking to get into another online.

If you're still reading, and think you might like to chat, then drop me a line and lets chat.

I've had luck with this once a few years back, hoping the ghosters and time wasters steer clear this time.

This time I think I'm going to get straight to the point on a few things, cause if others are resorting to it why not me?

What am I looking for? someone to talk to about our day to days, I want to hear about whatever it was you had/will have for dinner. I want to know about your weekend, and what you did with your friends last week. I want someone whose spouse is as disconnected and/or disinterested in their lives as mine is. I want that slow burn that builds into a raging inferno. I want us to build that closeness that ends up spilling over into intimacy. Of course I would like to share pics, but that can wait until your comfortable, and lord knows if we do trade pics and I'm not your cup o' tea, then please say so. We all find different things attractive, just be honest about it.

About you? between 40-46, married, single doesn't matter, but be able to talk fairly open during the day. Yes, I'm aware work and life are things, and that's understandable, but if you can't talk but once or twice a day, or only ever other day between 2-4 then it isn't going to work. I'm already in a connection lacking situation now, not looking to keep that going online. I prefer women with some meat on their bones, never been attracted to slim/athletic women, probably cause I'm bigger myself and just feel more comfortable with them.... and they are cuter in my eyes. Do not care if you have kids, furry or otherwise, but if they are going to make it difficult for you to do this, then please don't try.

About me? just your typical married guy whose spent to much time in a DB with little to no communication with their partner, yeah we are a dime a dozen, but that doesn't mean we can't hope to find someone to save us from this. I'm 6'1", on the husky/bhm side, whichever you want to call it. Brown hair, goatee/beard depending on the time of year. 2 piercings, 1 tattoo. Into nerdy type stuff, enjoy walking if the weather permits, enjoy games (video and board).

if you still want to try and take a shot, then please do. I would love a change of pace for once.