Newbies
Hey everyone,I’m a 34-year-old guy, been with my wife for 3 years, married for half a year. Our relationship is solid, sex is regular and good, but the idea of swinging / partner swapping has been growing on me more and more. I’d love to try new experiences, see her from a different angle, and share that excitement together.The issue is she’s not into it at all yet. When I’ve carefully hinted at things like “what if…”, she either jokes it off or says “nah, that’s not for us.” I don’t want to pressure her or put her on the spot — it’s important to me that she actually wants it herself, not just goes along for my sake.Anyone been through something similar? How did you gently introduce the idea to your partner? What steps actually worked (movies, bedroom fantasies, just talking, visiting a club to “look around,” etc.)? And what should I avoid so I don’t mess up the relationship?Would really appreciate honest advice from people who’ve been there. Thanks in advance!