How to get towards sex
I consider myself an attractive person. I’ve never had trouble with women, and yet I’m not someone who usually initiates interactions. Lately, though, I’ve been thinking that maybe I should change that by taking more initiative when I go out partying or in general situations with women.
One of the problems I’ve always had, and that’s hardest for me, is that if I’m alone with a girl at my place or hers, we can be kissing, but if she’s not the one who leads things toward sex, nothing happens because I’m not going to make that move myself.I find it unnatural to be kissing and then suddenly take off a piece of clothing, start touching her, or do anything like that. It has happened to me on several occasions (most of the time) that it’s the person I’m with who tells me things like “let’s have sex,” “are we just going to keep kissing?” or similar.
Although I understand that things escalate step by step, once I reach the highest point I can get to with kissing, I can’t manage to take the next step.
That’s why I’d like to know what I can do to become more proactive when it comes to sex.