u/Physical_Log_254

27 [M4F] #SFBayArea - Looking for a domme

About me: I’m 27, bi, ambivert, 5’9, 155 lbs, white/latino, slim/average body, a few tattoos. I’m career oriented and focused on doing better for myself. I consider myself an easy going guy with a good sense of humor and am easy to talk to. I’m looking for a domme around my age to get to know and hopefully engage in an ongoing dynamic with. I have no issue with taking our time chatting, getting to know each other, and seeing if we make a match. I take my sexual health very seriously and get tested every 3 months.

SFW interests/hobbies: reading, watching movies, playing video games, cooking, playing board games, working out, playing tennis (I’m very much an amateur but I don’t let that discourage me from playing), attending live music events, watching plays, traveling, trying new restaurants, and watching/learning about skincare

More about me and what I can offer: Kink stuff aside, I can bring companionship, friendship, and a good sense of humor to help brighten up your day. I like making plans and sticking to them. I like chatting about anything and everything, from deep questions to silly hypothetical ones. I’m communicative and will let you know if anything is on my mind. I would love to find someone who likes going out to events, museums, movies, and more with. Got a new coffee shop or restaurant you want to try? I’m down. I’m also more than happy to spend our days/nights inside. Got a new recipe you wanna try? Let’s do it. I’d even be down to attend munches together to meet more people in the lifestyle. I’d love someone to attend rope jams together as shibari is something I would love to learn and practice.

My ideal domme: (none of these are hard requirements, but nice to have)
- Age Range: 24-35
- Location: Preferably in the east bay since I live there but almost anywhere in the Bay Area should be fine.
- Body type/height/weight: Would prefer average/hwp. I don’t really mind if you’re taller than me.
- Personality traits: A sense of humor, adventurous and open to trying new things, respectful of limits and boundaries. Values communications and forming a bond before hopping into any kinky stuff.
- Preferred domme styles: Gentle domme

My femdom preferences:
- My favorite kinks: humiliation, degradation, dirty talk, name calling, free use, spit, spanking, cum play (prob my fave out of this whole list), orgasm control/denial
- Kinks I like: body writing, toys, choking, slapping, spit, spanking, cum play, pussy/body worship, anal, voyeur
- Curious about: bondage, toys, collar/leash, pet play, CFNM, nudity denial, forced orgasm, overstimulation, outercourse, human furniture, group sex/group settings, forced bi (I’m already bi so it won’t really be *that* forced but I’d love to try it anyway), as well as anything not listed on here that you may want to engage in. I’m pretty open minded so feel free to bring up and ask about something you don’t see on this list.
- My hard limits: feet, feminization, sissification, blood, knives, needles, scat, age play
- Preferred d/s dynamics: service oriented dynamic, stag/vixen dynamic

If any of this interests you and want to get to know each other better please reach out via DMs. Thanks for reading hope to hear from you soon!

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 4 days ago
▲ 1 r/GayRP

[B4T] [V4V] Free Use Interracial Roommates

All users and role players in this scene must be at least 18+. All characters will be 18+ as well.

I’m looking to play as roomates that start off as just roommates and reach an agreement to become free use for each other. Either to help each other relieve our sexual frustrations, to practice on each other, or simply because we’re horny and need an outlet. The biggest thing I’m looking for would be that we are roomates of different races. I’ve been getting into race play more lately and would love to see how that combines with a free use dynamic. I’m white/latino mix, and happy to play as one or the other or as my mixed self (would be interesting to be called a mutt or something like that). I don’t mind what race/color you are or want to play ass, so long as you’re kinky!

I’m open to taking out time to decide our living arrangement and how we came to this agreement. The dynamic itself could be more about casual sex between two roommates or about a clear hierarchy between us.

You can play as my frat bro, the frat president, a friend, my friend’s boyfriend, or whoever you may have in mind. I’m open to what our relationship could be.

I’d love to play into the psychology of this kind of dynamic. Do you start to change the way you view me the more you use me? Is there a shift in power in our dynamic/relationship? Being taught and learning that everything I’m being made to do is necessary for your pleasure and suits me best because of my race, thus learning my place among men sounds incredibly hot.

I prefer to play in first person.

I’m ok with using character descriptions or reference pics for our characters.

Kinks: breeding, creampies, rough sex, verbal sex, casual sex, casual nudity, verbal sex, humiliation, degradation, objectification, foot on face or neck during sex, dirty talk, name calling, free use, subtle forms of displaying dominance, body writing, bondage, group sex, toys, choking, slapping, spit, spanking, cum play, cock/body worship, collar/leash, socks/underwear, water sports, rimming, nipple play/worship, orgasm control/denial, forced orgasm, anal, public play, taking pics/vids during sex, voyeur, exhibitionism, cheating, chastity, boot worship, sweat, musk, straight to gay, orientation play, SPH, light race play and a whole lot more.

We don’t have to include all of these. This is just what I’m into. Let me know which of my kinks are limits for you and we can exclude them.

Limits: Feet\*, blood, scat, feminization, sissification, animals, vomit

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 5 days ago
▲ 6 r/GayRP

All users and role players in this scene must be at least 18+. All characters will be 18+ as well.

I’m looking for a partner to play as my roommate who regularly fucks guys either to help relieve his sexual frustrations, or simply because he’s horny and need an outlet and guys just happen to be easier for that than girls. Whether he’s gay, straight, or bi I’ll leave up to you, but one thing is for certain his cock is described as a “straight breaker” by all the guys he brings to our apartment to fuck. They always come back begging for more behind their girlfriend’s backs. I can hear them scream and moan for his dick through the walls while he fucks them. They humiliate and degrade themselves without a second thought for even a taste of his dick. I’ve seen him make straight boys wash the dishes, wash his car, pay for his gas, even kiss his shoes for another round of rough sex. I’m not gay but after jerking off to the sounds of him pounding and breeding the straight boys that come over at a moment’s notice I finally want to make a move and get a taste.

I’m open to taking our time to decide our living arrangement and how we came to me asking to try your dick. The dynamic itself could be more about casual sex between two roommates or about a clear hierarchy between us.

You can play as my frat bro, the frat president, a friend, my friend’s boyfriend, or whoever you may have in mind. I’m open to what our relationship could be.

I’d love to play into the psychology of this kind of dynamic. Do you start to change the way you view me the more you use me? Is there a shift in power in our dynamic/relationship? Being taught and learning that everything I’m being made to do is necessary for your pleasure and suits me best because of my race, thus learning my place among men sounds incredibly hot.

I prefer to play in first person.

I’m ok with using character descriptions or reference pics for our characters.

Kinks: breeding, creampies, rough sex, verbal sex, casual sex, casual nudity, verbal sex, humiliation, degradation, objectification, foot on face or neck during sex, dirty talk, name calling, free use, subtle forms of displaying dominance, body writing, bondage, group sex, toys, choking, slapping, spit, spanking, cum play, cock/body worship, collar/leash, socks/underwear, water sports, rimming, nipple play/worship, orgasm control/denial, forced orgasm, anal, public play, taking pics/vids during sex, voyeur, exhibitionism, cheating, chastity, boot worship, sweat, musk, straight to gay, orientation play, SPH, light race play and a whole lot more.

We don’t have to include all of these. This is just what I’m into. Let me know which of my kinks are limits for you and we can exclude them.

Limits: Feet*, blood, scat, feminization, sissification, animals, vomit

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 23 days ago

There’s nothing I love more than sharing my partner and watching her be her best, sexiest self. It almost shames me to say this but I’ve developed an insatiable need to share my partner. What I’ve learned drives me crazy the most isn’t even the sexual part of it, it’s the emotional aspect of it. Knowing that my girlfriend not only has sex with another man regularly does something to me in ways I can show better than I can tell. I’d like to explore the idea of two guys dating and sharing the same girl. Both guys will already know each other and agreed to dating and sharing the same girl. I imagine both of us taking you on dates, either one-one or with both of us being there to take care of you and show you a good time.

I’m look for a partner to have a deep, detailed, kinky role play or conversation about this with some world building mixed in. Let’s discuss our relationship’s background, as well as where in our relationship we want to start. To be clear, I’m not really looking for a cuckolding situation from the start, although that can be discussed for something we do later down the line. I think a dynamic that starts with us being happy to engage in sharing our partner and encourage it would be a fresh, fun spin on things. As for how you find yourself settling in on the relationship I’ll leave up to you. What happens when you start to like one boyfriend more over the other? How do you feel when they start getting competitive over you? My one and only request would be that when we start fantasizing and writing about ourselves in this dynamic that we start out as boyfriend/girlfriend for a specific reason I can share with you when we start chatting ;)

A huge part of this dynamic will be the psychological and emotional aspect of it all. Does being in a throuple, especially after some time, change how we feel about ourselves or each other or our relationship? Do either of the guys get jealous when watching his girlfriend kiss or fuck her other boyfriend? I’d love to explore the mental roller coaster this lifestyle will send us on.

There are sooo many routes we could take with this. A couple ideas I have for what we could explore in our conversation are below (none of these are musts, just things that came up while brainstorming):

- Us having different personalities and/or being into different things in and out of bed. A big reason for this is because I’d love to explore different dynamics. Maybe one boyfriend is more rough and dominant with you while another prefers more sensual, passionate sessions.

- Competition in the form of different sexual acts such as who can last longer, who can make you squirt, who can successfully breed you first, etc. It would also be fun to make bets this way and see what different punishments we would enforce on each other.

How do you imagine your boyfriends in this? Dominant gentlemen who are used to taking what they want in bed? Is one more dominant than the other? Are they your average kinksters who want to explore all different types of kinks and dynamics with their lovely, equally kinky girlfriend? I think his personality will largely depend on the scenario and dynamic.

Speaking of characters, I see myself controlling one of the boyfriends while we share control of the other. Although I’m open to whatever character control situation you may have in mind.

I left this very open ended on purpose so that we can brainstorm the setting and dynamic together!

Kinks: breeding, creampies, rough sex, risky sex, pregnancy risk, pregnancy, verbal sex, threesomes, sexual competition, humiliation, degradation, dirty talk, name calling, free use, body writing, bondage, outercourse, group sex, forced bi, toys, choking, slapping, spit, spanking, cum play, cock/pussy/body worship, collar/leash, pet play, water sports, orgasm control/denial, forced orgasm, anal, public play, taking pics/vids during sex, voyeur, exhibitionism, cheating, incest, sweat, musk, light race play and a whole lot more.

We don’t have to include all of these. This is just what I’m into. Let me know which of my kinks are limits for you and we can exclude them.

Limits: Feet, blood, scat, feminization, sissification, animals, vomit

I prefer to write in first person. I also prefer to use discord after we chat a bit on here, but am ok with staying on here.

Well, there you have it. Hope this catches your eye. Feel free to add any of your own ideas to this or ask any questions you may have. Hope to hear from you soon :)

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 24 days ago

About me: I’m 27, bi, ambivert, 5’9, 155 lbs, white/latino, slim/average body, a few tattoos. I’m career oriented and focused on doing better for myself. I consider myself an easy going guy with a good sense of humor and am easy to talk to. I’m looking for a domme around my age to get to know and hopefully engage in an ongoing dynamic with. I have no issue with taking our time chatting, getting to know each other, and seeing if we make a match. I take my sexual health very seriously and get tested every 3 months.

SFW interests/hobbies: reading, watching movies, playing video games, cooking, playing board games, working out, playing tennis (I’m very much an amateur but I don’t let that discourage me from playing), attending live music events, watching plays, traveling, trying new restaurants, and watching/learning about skincare

More about me and what I can offer: Kink stuff aside, I can bring companionship, friendship, and a good sense of humor to help brighten up your day. I like making plans and sticking to them. I like chatting about anything and everything, from deep questions to silly hypothetical ones. I’m communicative and will let you know if anything is on my mind. I would love to find someone who likes going out to events, museums, movies, and more with. Got a new coffee shop or restaurant you want to try? I’m down. I’m also more than happy to spend our days/nights inside. Got a new recipe you wanna try? Let’s do it. I’d even be down to attend munches together to meet more people in the lifestyle. I’d love someone to attend rope jams together as shibari is something I would love to learn and practice.

My ideal domme: (none of these are hard requirements, but nice to have)
- Age Range: 24-35
- Location: Preferably in the east bay since I live there but almost anywhere in the Bay Area should be fine.
- Body type/height/weight: Would prefer average/hwp. I don’t really mind if you’re taller than me.
- Personality traits: A sense of humor, adventurous and open to trying new things, respectful of limits and boundaries. Values communications and forming a bond before hopping into any kinky stuff.
- Preferred domme styles: Gentle domme

My femdom preferences:
- My favorite kinks: humiliation, degradation, dirty talk, name calling, free use, spit, spanking, cum play (prob my fave out of this whole list), orgasm control/denial
- Kinks I like: body writing, toys, choking, slapping, spit, spanking, cum play, pussy/body worship, anal, voyeur
- Curious about: bondage, toys, collar/leash, pet play, CFNM, nudity denial, forced orgasm, overstimulation, outercourse, human furniture, group sex/group settings forced bi (I’m already bi so it won’t really be *that* forced but I’d love to try it anyway), as well as anything not listed on here that you may want to engage in. I’m pretty open minded so feel free to bring up and ask about something you don’t see on this list.
- My hard limits: feet, feminization, sissification, blood, knives, needles, scat, age play
- Preferred d/s dynamics: service oriented dynamic, stag/vixen dynamic

If any of this interests you and want to get to know each other better please reach out via DMs. Thanks for reading hope to hear from you soon!

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 25 days ago
▲ 2 r/GayRP

All users and role players in this scene must be at least 18+. All characters will be 18+ as well.

I’m looking to play as roomates that start off as just roommates and reach an agreement to become free use for each other. Either to help each other relieve our sexual frustrations, to practice on each other, or simply because we’re horny and need an outlet. The biggest thing I’m looking for would be that we are roomates of different races. I’ve been getting into race play more lately and would love to see how that combines with a free use dynamic. I’m white/latino mix, and happy to play as one or the other or as my mixed self (would be interesting to be called a mutt or something like that). I don’t mind what race/color you are or want to play ass, so long as you’re kinky!

I’m open to taking out time to decide our living arrangement and how we came to this agreement. The dynamic itself could be more about casual sex between two roommates or about a clear hierarchy between us.

You can play as my frat bro, the frat president, a friend, my friend’s boyfriend, or whoever you may have in mind. I’m open to what our relationship could be.

I’d love to play into the psychology of this kind of dynamic. Do you start to change the way you view me the more you use me? Is there a shift in power in our dynamic/relationship? Being taught and learning that everything I’m being made to do is necessary for your pleasure and suits me best because of my race, thus learning my place among men sounds incredibly hot.

I prefer to play in first person.

I’m ok with using character descriptions or reference pics for our characters.

Kinks: breeding, creampies, rough sex, verbal sex, casual sex, casual nudity, verbal sex, humiliation, degradation, objectification, foot on face or neck during sex, dirty talk, name calling, free use, subtle forms of displaying dominance, body writing, bondage, group sex, toys, choking, slapping, spit, spanking, cum play, cock/body worship, collar/leash, socks/underwear, water sports, rimming, nipple play/worship, orgasm control/denial, forced orgasm, anal, public play, taking pics/vids during sex, voyeur, exhibitionism, cheating, chastity, boot worship, sweat, musk, straight to gay, orientation play, SPH, light race play and a whole lot more.

We don’t have to include all of these. This is just what I’m into. Let me know which of my kinks are limits for you and we can exclude them.

Limits: Feet*, blood, scat, feminization, sissification, animals, vomit

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 26 days ago

Bi bro looking for frat bros to suck. I don’t care if you’re single, got a girl, or DL. Just be chill, clean, and std negative. Prefer bros in the east bay but could travel.

Can’t host unfortunately. Not into car play.

HMU with age and stats. Be at least 18+

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u/Physical_Log_254 — 26 days ago