Hey there! 😃

I am Dirk, a 22 year old full-time MA university student who likes to be a submissive on the side. Besides working on finishing my MA degree I also work in hospitality multiple nights a week.

Personal Life and Interests

So, first of all a little bit more on myself. I'm ultimately looking for someone I can vibe with on a personal level first- and see where things lead us from there.

My hobbies include gaming, watching youtube and series (a wide range of them, with my favourite series being historical fantasy ones!), puzzling (my nerdy side coming out here), listening to music, and football. I no longer play myself, but I am still an avid Spurs supporter. I am also very much interested in the Middle East and international politics (this is something I am very passionate about and could yap about for hours). I speak multiple languages, though admittedly I am a bit rusty with most. Family is also very important to me.

My Physical Self & What I'm Looking For

In terms of looks I would describe myself as tall (6'2/188cm), skinny, brown hair, green eyes. This is an animated version of me to give a rough idea: https://ibb.co/W4zNYdhm. I'd be more than happy to provide actual pictures in DM. I do expect you to verify (so will I) before sharing anything NSFW.

I do prefer someone with a fit-average build (you don't have to be a gym rat at all- as long as you somewhat look after yourself). I’m not too fussy with timezones, as long as we think we can make it work. I do think some kind of mutual attraction is important, both in terms of personality & looks. I'm not too specific in what I'm looking for right now, mainly looking to see what comes across my path and where it leads us. I do expected monogamy however.

Femdom Experience & More of What I'm Looking For

In terms of femdom, I have a wide range of kinks and interests, ranging from the usual ones to more 'taboo' ones. I am open to a lot and I’m always open to trying things. Hard limits include forced bi, public exposure, scat, blood, permanent damage (and ofcourse all that is illegal). I'd be happy to discuss kinks more in DM.

Despite having no in real life experience, I started being in femdom dynamics about 6 years ago, so I have a fair share of experience nevertheless (both the good and the bad). I would definitely classify myself as a kinky obedient submissive. I also have an arrange of toys at my disposal.

I am preferably looking for a gentle leaning domme who's not too shy (taking your online safety serious not included) and who's also looking for friend before anything else. Preferably you already have some experience, but I do also enjoy the thrill of learning together. If you happen to be near me I don't mind the possibility of considering to meet up at some stage.

I hope to hear from you if you believe you might be this person! I'd be happy to answer any and all questions as well. 😄