u/Pilot_giuseppe

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25 [M4F] #uk #midlands- submissive seeking long term FLR

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Hi I'm (M25), I'm 6'3", with an athletic build and working on getting properly ripped. Raised in Yorkshire but living in the Midlands, work in aviation, and I have a life outside of kink I genuinely enjoy — which is exactly why I want the right woman to be part of it.

About me

Sport is a big part of my life — football, boxing, tennis, and the gym most days. I play guitar, game when I want to switch off, and aviation keeps work interesting. I'm someone who shows up, takes things seriously, and puts the effort in.

What I'm looking for

A long-term FLR with a woman aged 19–35 who knows what she wants and enjoys having that power. Not a one-off scene, not online-only — I want something real that builds over time. It's been a few months since my last dynamic; I have a fair bit of experience and I'm ready for the next chapter with the right person.

The dynamic

Submissive, service-oriented, and happiest under someone who actually wants to lead. Things I enjoy: impact play, pegging, service, and control (in and out of the bedroom). Beyond that I'm very open to trying new things — communication is everything.

Hard limits: standard limits apply; scat and anything causing permanent injury.

What I'm hoping you bring

You look after yourself

Confidence — you know what you want

A career you care about

A solid support network and a real life outside this

Hobbies, interests, opinions of your own

I'm not chasing a fantasy. I want someone with depth, who has her own world, and who happens to also want what I'm offering. I can drive and am willing to travel a reasonable distance

How to reach me: DM with a bit about yourself and what you're looking for. Low-effort one-liners will likely get skipped — put in what you'd want back

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u/Pilot_giuseppe — 8 days ago