I'm nb (female and woman presenting), I'm 5'3 and about 215lbs, and white (if that matters). I just dropped out of college and I am trying to figure my life out while still living with my parents. I'm a stoner to say the least and I dress in baggy clothes in a kind of alt hippie style (although I'm thinking about going a bit more gothic (lowkey kinda intrested in fursuits??)). I love smoking and it makes me hornier so I will continue to smoke or consume thc in some form as long as I wasn't pregnant.
I am left leaning, I don’t want to be in a relationship with someone on the right.
I'm a virgin with basically no experience. I am by no means a wait till marriage person, but I do want my first time to be with someone I'm emotionally connected to (aka don't be expecting sex or nudes as soon as you text me). I love gaming, baking, cooking, sewing, and redoing older nonworking tech. If you look on my page there’s a picture of me with no makeup at my absolute worst (my face should be better in a month or two), but if you’re ok with me at my worst it can only get better lmfao.
What I'm looking for:
age: 21-32 (+edit yall this is me widening my desired age range, you gotta understand that ideally this is the person my Dad is gonna meet. He can't be meeting someone nearly the same age as him lmfao)
For experience I’m not too picky, I'm willing to be taught or learn together.
In terms of personality just looking for a nice dude ngl.
In terms of looks I'm also not too picky but I don't want anyone less fit than I am, and someone taller (I'm 5'3, yall got this). I'm not fit at all as you can see by my weight so not a high bar lol.
I'd love someone with a similar music taste : emo, gothic, punk, electronic, alt (+some pop and the occational country song)
Tough in the bedroom, but sweet and loving outside, while still being a firm force. I am quite uptight and stressed and looking for someone to make me comfortable enough to relax the way I want to. Mostly looking for a dom but I don't think I'd mind someone who needs me to dom every once in a while.
Realistically I'm looking for someone who can financially provide for the lifestyle I want, and as we know stay at home mom requires stay at home money (+edit it seems like from the responses we consider 'making good money' different things lol. I don't wanna be broke and bred I wanna be comfortable and bred).
-I'd like to stick to the US,. I want to move to somewhere less south lol.
What I want the future to look like:
I want this person to not only be my dom but be my lover, someone who adores me as much as I him.
I had a dream the other day and I realized it was exactly what I want for my life. I was on a relationship with a sweet dude for a while. He wasn't wealthy but he made good money. We would go dancing and to some bdsm bars where we got to know each other. While we were dating although we saw each other infrequently he was slowly training me to be his cum slut. Soon after we got engaged, we bought a large old Victorian home (I've always dreamed of a victorian home with dark wood and dark greens) (in a state with legal weed, and no traffic cameras lol) for me to redo for our future life. For the first five years or so I worked on redoing the house while he was at work. He kept something in me at all times that he could turn on from work, and he would do this all day everyday when he was gone. We were working on soundproofing a hidden playroom attached to our bedroom, perfect from hiding our tendencies from our future kids. He always came home to a clean house, dinner on the way, and a high wife begging to be bred. He made sure I had a budget to make sure I could look my best for him. In this time we also were going to things like burning man, other festivals, concerts and countries meeting others like us and large orgies and things. After the first five years is when I got an iud removed and he finally really knocked me up, just like I'd been dying for. We have realistically like 4 kids and I take care of them till they go to elementary school, then I get to turn back into a bit more of a slut for my husband for the day.
In advance:
Every time I post these I get lots of responses. Usually I get overwhelmed by the sheer quantity of responses, so I just don't respond to people I'm not interested in for whatever reason. It's nothing personal I promise. (I don't respond if it's obvious someone didn't even read the first bit of this)
If you're truly intrested tell me a bit about yourself, your goals, your basic info, or some fun facts about you when you send the message. Make yourself stand out, show me why you're the dom and future lover. If you dmed me and you think I may have missed it feel free to try again.
Heres my fetlife if you'f like to do more research before you dm me (specific kinks and some more pics:) : https://fetlife.com/grabbytabby
Sorry if that was a lot, but thanks for sticking around this long!!!!