Boyfriend and I looking for a dom but don’t know where to start (with a major obstacle)?
Me (23) and my boyfriend (24) are both subs. We switch for each other but agree getting a proper dominant would be beneficial for us sexually. The catch is, we are both transgender. Him being female to male and me being AFAB and identifying as non-binary. This causes some discomfort because we are worried about trying to find a dom with these “restrictions.” Because of this we are pretty much only be comfortable with someone who is assigned female at birth (afab) or is a trans woman. This makes us hesitant to look into the kink community around us because it seems to be dominated (haha get it) by cis men (which is 100% okay, it’s just not for us personally). Does anyone have any suggestions on where to look, if it’s even realistic for us to look into it, or if we should just give up and stay the way we are.