u/Proper_Storm_5420

Me and my bf are both 20 and met in college. When he told me he was a femboy, I was over the moon because it’s very difficult to find a femboy that is straight. Ive never pegged anyone before so I went to google for help. I went and bought lube and a dildo. I tried to loosen him up with fingers and it was working until we got to the dildo. He said that it hurts no matter how slowly I went and it’s even caused tearing. I asked him if he’s ever been pegged and he says no he only used his fingers. I don’t know if I’m doing something wrong and I’m really scared and nervous about hurting him because I really enjoy being dominant and being in control.