u/PuzzledTie8686

My wife is a 40f hot mom w/tight body. We have had 15 years of vanilla sex. I
Resorted to porn to make up for it. After a while I said fuck it, she is going to be my bedroom slut. Turns out she wants that. She begs to be dominated, used, pinned, and wants my cock on her face. She loves to be submissive and is highly turned on by cum on her face and chest. I now tell her I want to watch her being used by thick cock and when I do she orgasims hard. She is very proper in person but sexually woke in the bedroom. We fantasize about going on vacations away from kids so she can be fucked and dominated by thick cocks. Look I’m not that bad myself, but to get her to open up a little is hot af. I tell her I want to watch her get used and make her day she wants it… she has orgasim like never before. Now she enjoys being my fuck toy and is loud because I have been more dominate and demand her slutty side and she fantasizes about multiple cocks using her. Now I need to make this role play / fantasy come real.

Long time lurker. My wife (45) and I have been together 18 years. She’s always been the classic proper type conservative background, great mom, very put together in public, modest dresser, etc. Sex was vanilla for most of our marriage, but about a year ago things started changing and it’s been pretty wild since.

She’s now super submissive in the bedroom (which she never was before). She loves being dominated, hair pulled, light spanking, dirty talk, and repeats certain phrases. She also started proactively dressing up for me in crotchless panties and braless crop tops and waiting in bed. The contrast between public and how she is with me behind closed doors is a huge turn on for both of us.

Recently I’ve been introducing more hotwife talk and she’s responding really well moaning louder, staying in subspace…

I’m thinking about taking the next step (probably starting with an in room sensual massage with a bull while I watch), but I want to do it right. She’s still very much the proper wife outside the bedroom, so I’m being careful with pacing and aftercare.

Fellow hotwife husbands (especially with conservative wives or similar age), how did your wife handle the first real experience? Any advice on how to bring it up or what to watch out for? Also open to thoughts from wives who went through something similar.
Thanks in advance just trying to navigate this the right way.