u/QueenMariah3006

genuine question for subs… why are some of y’all so against doing something like a revolut referral for a domme when you literally send nothing otherwise ?

like… it costs you basically nothing, and for once it would actually let me get something out of the interaction, even if technically the money isn’t directly coming from you. i genuinely don’t understand the resistance.

especially from the ones who talk for DAYS, want attention, want a connection, want replies, want dynamics, but the second there’s an easy way to support, suddenly it’s too much effort 💀

is it pride laziness ? being dumb ? i’m curious…

is anyone else dealing with a sub who acts like he just financed your entire life after sending 2.22€ a day 💀

like this man genuinely thinks he’s making huge sacrifices for me. he’ll send 10€ and immediately go into panic mode like ‘omg i can’t do this every day…’

the funniest part is he keeps bringing up the total like it’s some life changing amount. ‘i sent you 50€ in 5 days…’ okay ?? and ? you want a medal or something ?

and he’s the one acting super emotionally invested in the whole thing too. meanwhile i’m just watching him spiral over the financial impact of what is basically two coffees and a random uber ride.

every tiny send comes with a whole speech as well. he’ll send 2.22€ and act like he just went through war for me. i’ve literally spent more on iced coffee without needing a recovery breakdown afterwards.

i can’t tell if it’s cute, delusional, or just peak performance art at this point.

what’s up with findom lately ? a few months ago it still felt way more genuine, now it’s just endless time wasters, fake payers and people dming without even tributing first !

half of them act entitled to your attention for free, waste your time for hours, or straight up try to scam you while pretending to be “serious subs”. it genuinely made me think about leaving twitter/x lately because the vibe changed so much and it’s exhausting at this point…

genuine question for subs: why do some of you send huge amounts of money, act obsessed for days, then suddenly disappear and block everywhere ?? like what even is the psychology behind “moneybombing” ? 💀

i saw a case that sparked debate in the french speaking domme community about a man who ended up with around €10k in debt. one side felt it made sense to keep asking him for tribute, while the other thought that crossed a line. it made me wonder, for you guys, what are the situations where a domme should say no ? where do you personally think the limit is in findom ?