Best practices for anonymity?
I've been on the fence about seeking a sex worker for a while now. I'm married with kids, and my wife just doesn't have any desire to be intimate anymore. I try to do everything she asks to make her feel better to no avail. The marriage is still good, it's not toxic or anything like that. She just has no desire for intimacy while I do. So I'm at my breaking point.
That being said, how do I maintain as much anonymity as possible with this? Because EVERYTHING is available online now. I've checked my name online and it's actually shocking the kind of information you can find to where I don't understand how it's even legal. I'm worried that all it takes is meeting the wrong provider and I get unexpected texts or visits to my home.
I'd visit a MP, but they seem so janky tbh. I'm looking for a discreet and professional interaction, and the last thing I want is to have to make a call to my wife to come bail me out because I got picked up in a sting operation.
Is there pretty much nothing I can do and it's just a risk that comes with the territory? If so then I guess I'm looking forward to celibacy for the rest of my life -_-
I appreciate any help, thanks