I know that being "whored out," is also a common enough term, but I haven't met many doms who do this. I think porn has ruined many things for me, but I'd be interested to know if anyone has had a different lived experience than me.
With so many scammers, photo hunters, and outright liars, I think meeting guys online is basically over, especially when they demand so much before they'll meet.
If anyone has anything better than real-time video chat, let me know.
He wanted me to be his stepbrother home from college, who was inexperienced and innocent. He was my older brother, who gave me a spiked drink that made me a little incapacitated so he could touch me. After a while his boyfriend would come home and catch us, but would also take advantage of me while I was basically asleep.
I wasn't sure about the whole thing, but it went pretty well. I haven't done any roleplays before, but I get the appeal if people can keep it going and stick to their "part" for lack of a better word.
Is roleplay just a lost art or are more of you into this than I know?
Mainly posted here because I thought my ex was lurking in this group but I found a really supportive and engaged community.
I think I'll always be a sub, but my ideas about what that means have changed. A few of the men on here have DM'ed me or left comments that changed the way I think.
Having some boundaries, at least at first, can build trust.
It's ok to be femme, it's a lot of work to take on a fake masc persona to be with someone.
Doms can be overwhelmed too. Trying to be with a 'submissive cnc femme cumslut' could be intimidating for a guy who just wants to fuck a boy in a public bathroom and then go home.
Say 'no' and then just deal with the consequences.
I really think the next time I go out and look for someone, I'll do better.
Thx.
Yup. It was love, no more pretending like I didn't love him.
His close friend asked me to visit this weekend, which was weird. I asked why, he was like, why do you think?
I ignored him until my ex Dom, who broke up with me, texted me that his "open hole policy" for me still applied to his friends.
I didn't play any games, I did exactly what everyone expected, but I haven't heard from him again since.
I thought maybe he'd reach out, and that feeling made me give this a shot, but I doubt he'll reach out again.