u/ReddasDR

Depression, anxiety and medication affecting our dynamic. Any insight?

Our situation is the following. My wife suffers from chronic depression, anxiety, and what in our geographic area is known as a “highly sensitive person,” meaning, simply put, someone prone to experiencing emotional highs and lows more intensely than most people. I do not know what the proper term for that would be in the USA.

The point is that therapy and medication obviously have a negative effect on her libido, not just regarding including a third person, but even in our regular sex life. When we do have sex, it is intense, but over the past two years I have to admit the occasions have become more spaced out.

She has tried diets, supplements, natural products, etc., but the change is usually marginal at best. I love her and I will always support her, but the situation is uncomfortable for both of us. I do not pressure her, but her frustration about the issue is visible, especially because she genuinely enjoys being a hotwife.

Have any of you lived through something similar? Were you able to overcome it, or what has helped you deal with it? Any physical or mental suggestions would help us.

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u/ReddasDR — 4 hours ago