u/RegularCalm5145

When I’m alone, I can make myself squirt pretty consistently. I know what works, the pressure, the angle, all of that. But when I’m with my boyfriend… it just doesn’t happen.

It’s not like the sex is bad.. it’s okay.. but it never gets me there in the same way. I don’t know if it’s a position thing, a comfort thing, or if I just have way more control when I’m doing it myself??

I’ve tried guiding him a bit but it still doesn’t hit the same, and I don’t want to make it awkward or make him feel like he’s doing something wrong.

Is this normal?? Has anyone else experienced this where you can do something alone but not with a partner?