u/Reignyseasons

I suppose I’m curious how many people who have this interest/lifestyle actually know people who are into this without having had met them through these outlets. For instance, me and my bf found a couple who is into this stuff, but don’t really vibe with us as friends- do you have any friends who just happened to have this interest? How is that something you even ask a friend? We do have couples friends and it’s not really easy to air that and doing so would definitely change a social dynamic so i probably wouldn’t just ask. Any ideas? Stories? Advice? Lmk