PLEASE READ - I hate wasting my time and your time. I hope this appeals to the men that normally don’t respond to these.
First, I can’t do casual sex. It makes me feel like I’m desperate or accepting way less just for intimacy. I won’t do that to myself.
I would love to meet someone who is in my situation. My spouse is dealing with medical issues which has made intimacy challenging. I have been dealing with this for years. I have no intentions of leaving though.
I need a friendship with the man, a slow burn. I don’t want to rush into intimacy without knowing them and feeling confident that they are committed to actually having an affair, are going to be able to meet with some frequency, and give aftercare.
Me: I am white, have a pretty face, my body is average but nice, I’m funny, educated, an executive, and kind. I am a clean cut suburban mom. I love sex and I am very engaged with my partner. I even drive a minivan.
You: CUTE FACE is like my biggest requirement. I like dad bods over six packs. I would love to meet a man who is confident in bed, is average to above-average in size, but just isn’t having intimacy because of similar reasons as me. I think you guys tend to be nice guys that are in unfortunate situations. Understandably, you can’t leave your relationship either. And, the biggest take away is that I don’t want you to either. I prefer white men.
I don’t believe I am the norm on here, I am a perfect woman for this type of arrangement. I don’t have romantic hopes and am not looking for my next husband. I just want and need a true discreet friend that I have sex with.