u/Remarkable-Basis9850

Hi, I'm a domme I will flirt with you if you are a fellow Domme :D

edit: I didn't think this would be a successful as it was and now I'm in a lovely mood

edit 2: LADIES LADIES I'M ON MY WORK TYPE SHIFT. I'LL SHAKE MY DREADS AS SOON AS I'M HOME.

foolishly broke one of my big three rules, and it blew up in my face, and hurt worse than I thought it would. Can I just get a "it's gonna be OK!" from a fellow Domme

For context, the role was engaging with a certain kind of sub. i did, i liked him, i regret it. help pls with love (I don't need a stern talking to. I've been in the game gor 4 long years, Long enough to know that when I made the choice to break the rule it was a 5050 on where it was gonna go. I took the risk, I'm eating the consequence, just want some kindness if you can spare it)

would love some feedback, I've been trying to decide if I wanna do a space but it kind of just seems like loyal fans without having to pay 🤔

Anybody that's been doing one of the other? Which do you prefer and if you're doing both what are the pros and cons?

I'm very familiar with going live on loyal fans, but have been leaving it alone lately just due to the changing market and ridiculous amounts of requests for me to like take my entire outfit off which is not happening today tomorrow or any other day LMFAO. Feel free to chime in with any opinion.

simple as that. Anybody else?

I'd like to preface and say that I've been in the community for four years and I really don't do any of that open room advertising. Meaning that, I understand that not everybody will appreciate this post yet I am still going to post it because I'm not advertising, I'm just trying to get an idea of how many of us are on the same page here. Curious if you guys are noticing the same thing, and if your bullshit tolerance is as full as mine.

self reflection time. How many times are we gonna say the same things and talk about the same bullshit? How many times are we going to have the same conversations and everyone is going to respond as though it was the first time they heard it. when do we start pretending that this is not entirely redundant, boring, lack luster? What if I propose a different kind of perspective, one where you look childish, immature, like you have low impulse control, and lots of insecurity rather than edgy, interesting and intelligent for your ability to call out "bad" or "faildomme" or just unfavorable behavior.

What if you just stayed in your lane? It's kind of a crazy concept, I haven't been victimized by the vague posting, but I've seen a lot of of it today and I'm just curious as to why you won't call people out by name. Either you're a pussy, who doesn't want to actually handle a problem in a way that would actually get it handled, or adversely you just don't like other people doing things that aren't exactly the way that you do them. So you're still a pussy, just in Time's new Roman instead of Ariel.

If we're also dominant and strong, let's stop being so melodramatic and just start calling bitches bitches and fakers fakers. adversely, let's stop hating other women simply because they don't agree/don't follow our format. This is supposed to be a community of strong women, not a bunch of high school level drama. A lot of people want to call out other people for seeking attention but every time you post about how much better you are than everybody else, how much more refined and perfect you are and constantly shitting on other people's behaviors??? Are you concerned with finding submissives through dominance, or are you more worried about talking other women down in hopes to promote yourself??? The kind of people that you're hoping will pay you millions of dollars see these kinds of posts and look at you with a lens of immaturity. Imagine the first interaction with a Dom, seeing her blast people repeatedly throughout her entire account. You're not somebody with intelligence, grace, the ability to walk away from bullshit. You engage in it, you play in the mud and you look silly. I certainly assure you that standing on the sidelines gets you just as much coverage as being involved, the difference is one leaves you with entertainment, the other, a bad reputation.

Can't be the only one who's noticed this. figured it was only right to make a post in similar favor so we can all be reminded that complaining loudly is still complaining. not a whole lot of people solving problems, but certainly a whole lot of people crying that they exist.

let us have a moment to spread kindness to the submissive/dommes in the community

not the same "you're gonna make $1 million off of a pay piggy!!" positivity. Genuine positivity, with real substance behind it. Not just as it relates to putting somebody in debt. Maybe we can start with like a...

"I hope You had a great start to your week, I hope you're being treated properly in all your dynamics and being spoiled properly!! I hope you had a great breakfast, and your energized for the day. if you work today, I hope it's easy, and i'm sure you're gonna absolutely kill it <3!!"

domme to domme let's be less surface level for five seconds. Show the subs that you do more than just eat breathe shit post about money. it's OK if you do that, but it's also cool to be real every once in a while.

(I'm trying to help you. more QUALITY subs are going to look at this. They want to see you be a real person. So let's be real for five minutes.)