u/Remarkable-Curiosity

Happy Friday!

I think we’re both here for the same reason. To find someone who makes our days a little brighter, gives us something to smile about, and reminds us what it feels like to really matter to someone.

I’m looking for the kind of connection where “good morning” texts actually mean something, where we want to hear about each other’s day, and where a simple conversation can turn into something we don’t want to end. The kind where we can dream about sneaking away somewhere together, get into deep talks about life and the world, and then switch into completely ridiculous conversations five minutes later. Something real that builds naturally and keeps getting better.

A little about me. I’m on the West Coast, educated, genuine, tall, blue eyes, bearded, and I’d like to think I’m pretty caring. I love being outside, whether it’s hiking, running, or just sitting by the beach doing absolutely nothing. I’m into sports, a mix of movies and TV shows, and I’ll admit reality TV is a bit of a guilty pleasure. Lately I’ve been trying to swap some doom scrolling for reading and audiobooks, especially during workouts. It would be fun to start a show or even a book together and turn it into our own kind of virtual date.

As for you, being within a few hours would be ideal, but not a deal breaker if there’s real effort and a genuine connection. I’m looking for someone who actually wants to build something, someone who’s open to getting a little excited about each other and seeing where it goes.

Good morning ladies of RAOBJ,

I just had my birthday and would love for you to be my present.

It has been far too long since I’ve had the pleasure of being truly enjoyed and feeling that closeness again. I’m very much the gentle type. I love the idea of running my hands through your hair, making you feel relaxed, wanted, and appreciated. I’m happy to return that same energy before or after, but there’s no pressure at all. I want this to feel easy and mutual.

A little about me. I’m 35, educated, 6’4”, athletic dad bod, bearded, and very laid back with a calm, relaxed vibe.

I’m looking to be fully enjoyed. I want to be devoured, appreciated, and shown what it feels like to be desired purely for your enjoyment.

I’d love to chat first and see if we vibe. If the chemistry is there, maybe we meet up for a little midday escape. I can grab us a room or find a quiet spot where I can take my time appreciating just how good you feel.

I’m also open to hearing about your fantasies. Let’s flirt a little, have some fun, and see where it goes

Good morning ☀️

Let's start an adventure together where we get to know one another, enjoy each other, and have a little fun throughout the day. I want the good mornings, good nights, and the flirty texts all day about a fantasy land we both wish we were in together.

I am 35, educated, tall, blue eyes, bearded, bald, and a husky athletic dadbod type build. I am a member of the crazy wake up early and workout group of people. I enjoy starting my day at the gym or with a run. I am working my way up from 10ks to HM on trail runs, my goal is do do one sometime this year. I enjoy baking, plants, and starting my reading journey through some epic fantasy series. I also have a guilty pleasure for reality tv.

What am i looking for? That seems to be the hard part of this search... Be within a few hours from me, be able to hold conversations from what's going on in the world to silly and flirty banter. I am looking for someone who can put in effort to make our days better. Willing to build a connection where we grow closer and enjoy each other's company. I want voice notes, occasional calls, pictures, and all the cutesy things.

Give me a chance and lets see where this can go. We are often too focused on external things where we are in this position for connection. This is online, why are we all so focused on being physically perfect for one another when we most likely will never meet?