u/Remy_Xavier

Rephrasing. Sorry.

I’m a Tampa-based SB and lately almost every potential SD I talk to seems to lead with big offers up front, but the conversation quickly drifts toward hookup vibes or pic requests before any real allowance is on the table. It’s been hard to tell who’s actually looking for an ongoing arrangement vs. who’s just fishing.

Online vetting only goes so far, and I’m wondering if certain types of venues — hotel bars, casinos or specific events you were successful in meeting someone?