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I thought being understanding of her fantasy and desire would prevent her from obsessing over getting impregnated by a white man. I even allowed her to flirt with white guys on Tinder to safely explore her fantasy like I wrote in the previous post. But all this seems to have only intensified her desire. She openly talks about wanting to be filled with white man’s seed and I don’t remember the last time she talked about wanting MY child.

Since the previous post, some people suggested I start slow/test the water with finding a white guy she can text with, rather than going straight into giving her a pass to have sex with one. I thought it was a good idea, and I told her about this idea.

She ended up creating a Tinder account, to find someone to flirt a little. I didn’t feel comfortable with her just going crazy with it and meeting someone behind my back, so I discussed with her first and set some rules. She has to tell me who she’s going to interact with, no meetup, no exchange of personal info or other contacts.

She has been loving talking to actual white men a lot. It has been just a fantasy before but now she can flirt with them and I think this helps her. I don’t want her to suppress her desire and risk her cheating on me so I think this is a healthy way to explore her fantasy.

Also it’s good that Tinder doesn’t allow users to send photos, so random guys won’t see her nudes nor will she get dick pics from them.

Thank you all for good advice.