I'm training to become a paramedic, and I constantly worry that me being kinky, or even me sexually expressing myself online at all, could make it hard for me to get hired when I'm certified or could get me in trouble at work. Is anyone here in the medical field or a similar field and let me know if this is true? Or is it just that I'm just letting my anxiety monster win again?
Hi hi! I'm new here. Small introduction, Im high a functioning neurodivergent woman with ADHD and a handful of other things and was diagnosed when I was in middle school. Plus I should probably get my ass tested for autism again cuz I present many signs. I'm 19 and gonna turn 20 in October. My special interests are mermaids, superpowers, the ocean, and outer space. My favorite color is Azure blue 💙 but I also love rainbows and iridescence.
Now, I wanted to talk about my main kink and how I incorporate it into my OCs stories and why. I'm into DDLG (Daddy Dom Little Girl), but I barely ever tell anyone due to the fact that if I do, I'm afraid it'll go like this:
"So you like diapers?" HELL NO. That's one of my biggest hard limits. Cutesy lingerie and undies are more than ok, but diapers or anything to do with em make me extremely uncomfortable.
"So you pretend to be a baby?" No. I naturally have a toddler-like personality. I don't do it as a roleplay.
The way I'm into DDLG is complicated. I really like the idea of being babied around and somewhat infantilized, but not to the point where I'm treated as if I can't do anything for myself or can't participate in grown up stuff. I kinda see adulthood with a babyish lense. I really like the idea of receiving princess treatment and being held and stuff like that. However, because of how DDLG is protrayed most of the time, especially in porn, I usually say at most that I like princess treatment/have a daddy kink to avoid shame. Especially because people think DDLG is about predation, which most DDLG porn kinda gives off that vibe unfortunately. The only times in my life I have even seen DDLG content that feels more accurate to what I like was maybe two or three subreddits, some NSFW art, and a small handful of stories on Wattpad. It bothers me so much it's not even funny. Though, I get past this by incorporating DDLG in my ship dynamics in my OC stories in the way I like, especially with my sona and the OC I ship myself with. Maybe I might post comics and art of it on some other subreddits when I get the chance. I wanted to rant about this because the shame I carry about this kink in particular is so uncomfortable. I feel ashamed mainly in fear of not finding someone who will accept my kinks, and that if I told some of my friends (one of which is kinky and neurodivergent themselves), that they'll think I'm gross. I hope I'm not the only one who feels this way about DDLG or virtually any kink. :<
Hi hi! This is my second time posting here, and some people really liked my last Mermay art piece, so here's the second! I can't do one every day due to my ADHD, but I do wanna do a handful of them! :>
Also, I know the woman in the original image isn't a mermaid but dilligaf? (Do I look like I give a fuck)
I did something similar last year where I drew ai mermaid art in my style, so I'm doing it again this year! I decided to make her a Superterrestrial; an alien mermaid species from another reality with divine powers. That's why she has the claws, thing on her lower chest/upper stomach which is called an Asterisk (their power source), and the halo with wings. Female Superterrestrials typically have angelic features like feathery wings and halos on their heads and males have demonic features like horns/spines and dragonic wings. I chose that because of the demons × angels trope and I FUCKING LOVE IT. If you have some more surface level questions about Superterrestrials, lemme know! ^-^
The first image is the SFW version, second is the NSFW, third is the originalai image. Superterrestrials don't wear clothes when they swim. Plus, they value sex/intimacy a lot. They don't breed like humans tho.
Also if you're about to start an argument with me about ai, pls don't. I just wanna show my damn art. ;-;