48 year old man from the UK.
I have always been submissive and I'm just starting to explore this physically in an online setting. I'm hoping to find a mature experienced woman for gentle rather than harsh play. I would be happy with short or long term, depending on how we get on but I would also enjoy the friendship aspect of this, getting to know each other rather than just play. This is important to me as it will build a connection and hopefully trust between us.
I fantasise about being given and preforming tasks and being rewarded for good behaviour. For me this is not all about being edged, denied, or directed to cum, it's the control that I find so attractive. I would like to experience some light humiliation but nothing too harsh.
About me.... Physically I'm kinda tall with an athletic build and small to average uncut cock. I don't have a huge sex drive and I have recently purchased a chastity cage that I am wearing for the first time today. I also have a small plug, nipple clamps and paddle that I'm yet to try. I can lean into being a sissy and wearing panties given the right motivation.
I would be interesting in exploring SPH, maybe preforming some degrading tasks, bladder or pee play, things like that.
I'm not looking for findom. I'm hoping to find a genuine experienced discreet woman that will work within the time limitations I currently have. I would also like to do some kind of no faces shown verification early on.
Yes I'm married and no my wife doesn't know anything about this. We are the best of friends but have a dead bedroom. I WFH some of the week so my availability on these days can be good.
I realise that you will have a busy life, as do I, so there will be times where it'll be difficult to message.
Please get in touch if you think we could be a good match, I would love to hear from you.