u/RingOnMyThing1996

I've read a lot of posts recently where butt stuff (like probing and penetration, not just massage) was part of the experience.

I'm still an AMP virgin, planning my first trip and want to avoid this. No judgments but not my deal. Butt massage is fine, but I don't want them near the hole and I'm pretty sure they don't want to be near it either!

Is that something I realistically have to worry about? Or if it comes up, do I just try not to recoil and politely say no?

I see a lot of y'all talk about going 20 or 30 miles to your places. Is that because that's just where they are? Or is it for the purpose of discretion?

My dilemma is that I have 4 places within about 5 miles of me - all pretty promising from what I can tell from basic research. I live in a large Texas town so options are pretty available.

The most tempting option is actually right near my gym, and that would also give me a valid and close parking area. Another is near an Asian grocery that I like to frequent. The other two are a little more tucked away.

For context - I'm an AMP virgin. Happily married, just looking for a massage and some excitement.