u/Rizthr

39 M4F Autoimmune sick, just trying to figure it out

I haven’t been sick in forever but here I am working away just trying to be positive . Hoping to meet some new people and see how things go. I like movies and traveling and taking long walks long as my body works

Open to speaking to anyone, really. Just be nice!

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u/Rizthr — 5 days ago

39 [M4F] Co-workers Office days

hiya,

So this was before COVID, and for some reason I can’t get it out of my head today—maybe because it’s a slow day. Back then, I had what you’d probably call a “work wife.” She was incredibly attractive and always dressed up for work—effortlessly put together every single day.

We were both married, no kids, and we’d spend a lot of time together—chatting, going out to lunch, sharing food, and eventually opening up about more personal things.

Then one day, completely out of nowhere, I got a text from her asking how she looked in this cute pink bra and thong. I was honestly shocked at first—but damn, she looked amazing. A few minutes later, she followed up with an “oops, wasn’t meant for you!”

Of course, I didn’t let that slide. I started teasing her about it over text, and somehow that moment shifted everything. We got a lot closer after that… and it was kind of incredible—until she eventually moved away.

If you’re up for chatting, send a note.

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u/Rizthr — 5 days ago

Hi,

I’m not looking to change either of our situations—just hoping for some lighthearted fun, good conversation, and a little playful energy.

Work has been slow with the new year kicking off, especially after a big reorganization. I just got back from a two-week overseas trip and I’m having a hard time getting back into the swing of things—definitely still in vacation mode (which isn’t ideal).

A bit about me: I’m married, no kids. I enjoy hiking, lifting, yoga—anything that keeps me active. Cooking and baking are big passions of mine (I might have a bit of a sweet tooth, but it’s all about balance, right?). I’m 5’9”, around 140 lbs, and try to stay pretty healthy overall.

Shopping for my wife has oddly become a hobby—I like seeing her style evolve, and she’s introduced me to some great brands. I’ll admit, I sometimes pick up a few things for myself too. Currently on the hunt for a solid belt or a sharp shirt to finish off a suit.

Travel is a big part of my life. I’ve got a few trips lined up this year—another Mexico trip and a longer one through Europe. I’ve been to about half the U.S., plus England, parts of the Middle East, and Asia. I just want to see as much of the world as I can. My last trip was working remotely from Cancun 😄 With everything going on globally, I might slow things down a bit. I’ve got an East Coast trip planned (NYC) and I’m thinking about adding another soon.

I’m looking for someone fun and down-to-earth who enjoys easy banter with a little spark of mischief. No drama—just good vibes and playful conversation. We can trade questions or just chat—pretty open and laid back.

So—what’s your idea of a perfect vacation? Favorite kind of outfit? And what would you do if you were the one reading this?

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u/Rizthr — 23 days ago