u/Rocha337

Sou H25 e recentemente descobri um fetiche novo quanto à submissão onde não há nenhum tipo de humilhação ou feminilização para com o sub.

Sempre tive relacionamentos onde eu fui o "dom", mas nunca me senti verdadeiramente cuidado, acho que por isso me atraiu tanto, para além de casar muito com meus outros kinks.

Agora pergunto a vocês que são sem dúvidas mais experientes: é algo que é praticado pela comunidade aqui no Brasil? Conhecem algum casal com essa dinâmica? Já ouviram falar sobre isso?

Até cheguei a fazer posts naqueles R4R da vida buscando alguém, algumas gringas me chamaram, mas com gringo é quase sempre a mesma coisa: uma conversa meio blasé, mesmo sem falar algo relacionado a sexo.

Aceito dicas de como encontrar parceiros (já tentei aquele Fet, mas olha...que aplicativo morto)

Um abraço!

Hi, I’m a 25-year-old man from Brazil looking for a gentle, caring mommy/Domme dynamic with warmth, structure, accountability, and real connection. I’m mainly looking online at first, but if trust, chemistry, and consistency grow over time, I would be open to this becoming something real and in person one day.

I’m not looking for something cold, cruel, or purely transactional. What attracts me most is soft authority: someone firm enough to guide me, correct me, and keep me on track, but kind enough to make me feel safe, cared for, and wanted. I’m submissive, but I’m not into humiliation, degradation, or being emotionally torn down. I respond much better to patience, praise, rules, affection, and consistent expectations.

About me — SFW

I’m 25, Brazilian, 170 cm, bearded, overweight but muscular, and actively working on losing weight. I’ve been trying to build a better routine with the gym, walking, studying, chores, and healthier habits. I’m not pretending to be perfect or fully disciplined yet. I’m very much a work in progress, but I’m serious about improving.

I’m currently transitioning into tech, especially Cloud Computing, Linux, automation, programming, and support/help desk. I like learning practical things, fixing problems, tinkering with computers, and building small projects. Outside of that, I enjoy gaming, writing, cooking, boxing, tabletop RPGs, violin, and deep conversations. I’m more of a homebody than a party person, but I do enjoy good food, long talks, and spending time with people I trust.

Personality-wise, I’m affectionate, nerdy, sensitive, and thoughtful. I can be shy at first, but I open up when I feel comfortable. I like feeling useful, appreciated, and emotionally connected. I’m the kind of person who enjoys being encouraged, checked on, and given structure. I also really value honesty and direct communication.

I can send pictures of myself after we introduce ourselves and feel comfortable, and I’m open to exchanging NSFW photos privately once there is a basic level of trust.

What I’m looking for

I’m looking for a woman who enjoys a caring form of control. Ideally, someone who would like to help keep me in line: make me study, go to the gym, do my house chores, follow my routine, and not waste money on stupid things. I like the idea of having someone I report to, someone who asks what I did during the day, checks whether I followed my goals, and gives me clear expectations.

I would enjoy rules, tasks, reminders, check-ins, praise when I do well, and firm correction when I avoid what I promised. I don’t need cruelty to feel submissive. A calm “I expected better from you” from the right woman would affect me much more than insults ever could.

I’m also drawn to acts of service and devotion. I like the idea of being useful, doing things to make you proud, and earning praise through consistency. I want the dynamic to feel personal, not like a script handed to a stranger.

NSFW / dynamic

Sexually and emotionally, I’m submissive. I’m interested in gentle dominance, mommy energy, teasing, praise, tasks, light discipline, ownership, obedience, and feeling guided by someone I trust. I like the idea of giving up control in a way that feels safe, consensual, and meaningful.

I’m also interested in masturbation/orgasm control: only doing it when mommy allows it, and how she tells me to. For me, that is about discipline, self-control, surrender, and feeling owned in a caring way. It is not about degradation.

My hard limits include humiliation, degradation, findom, cuckolding, scat/toilet play, blood, permanent damage, and anything cruel, unsafe, or non-consensual. Consent, communication, limits, and aftercare matter a lot to me.

If this sounds interesting, send me a message with a little about yourself, how you like to lead a dynamic, and what you’re looking for. I’d like to start with real conversation, build comfort slowly, and see if there is genuine chemistry.