So, my apa was done about 13 months ago, it's mostly healed but I can't seem to get it settled. I keep having irritation due to crusties sticking the jewelry to my skin and causing a feedback loop as a result. I'm able to break the loop for a few days, but then the issue comes back. What might be causing this and what might I be able to do to stop this from continuing to happen?
Hello, I'm Ronolin, or Rono, at least on Reddit.
Vanilla life: When I'm staying inside, I enjoy reading (mostly urban fantasy and sci-fi), tabletop games, some video gaming, tinkering, and building. Going outside, I ride mountain bikes, snowboard, canoe, backpack/hike, go to metal concerts, and enjoy the occasional bit of rock climbing.
I'm also an airplane/spaceflight nerd and work in the aviation industry on the experimental side with plans to move into the spaceflight side of the industry come the end of this summer. I build the planes and get to tell the engineers when they're being silly, it's a lot of fun.
My humor, when not lewd and a bit crude, can often be very dry and sarcastic.
Kink side: I lean toward the D/s side of things and enjoy the mental aspects of power exchange. Teasing, control, and psychological play tend to appeal to me the most. I enjoy and am looking for a dynamic built on trust, communication, and a little, (or a lot 😉) of teasing.
Some specific things I enjoy include tease and denial, humiliation/degradation, power exchange, bondage, free use (eventually), probably more, and I'm very open to exploring.
Beyond everything else, I'm looking to find someone who's excited to build a dynamic that is uniquely and wholly ours and where we're safe to be our complete selves. I'll also willingly admit to being rather inexperienced and I'm still building my skills and understanding of what I enjoy. I am active in my local kink community and am more than happy to provide references if desired.
Who I'm hoping to meet: I'm looking for a life partner, first and foremost. I'm looking for someone who is driven, kind, intelligent, capable, and who is looking to build a life together. I would prefer you be someone who makes an effort to stay fit or spend time outdoors, but that is not a requirement. Compatible kinks are appreciated, but communication and flexibility matter much more to me. I am not interested in ENM and I'd prefer someone who doesn't use THC or nicotine.
Secret password so I know you read this: include your favorite adventure, book, or concert in your opening message.