40M Sudden libido spike and shift in interests—advice?
I’m 40, based in Toronto. Historically, I’ve been very "vanilla," but recently ( last 1 year) my libido has hit an all time high that I can't ignore. My interests have shifted toward wanting to experiment and explore kinky territory for the first time.
This feels like a major 180 for me. Has anyone else experienced this kind of shift at this age? Looking for advice on how to navigate these changes and start exploring safely.