My wife and I are finally going on a well deserved getaway just the two of us. 2 nights alone in a fancy Airbnb no kids no anything else. We of course are excited to finally go at it without being quiet but idk. I wanna cut loose just a little more. I asked her what’s some extra stuff we should do and she basically said what we do is fine. I’ve communicated that I want to do more with her and I’ve made a good variety of suggestions and recommendations but all I do is horribly compromise or just let it go entirely.
Our sex life is great don’t get me wrong. I’m not asking to go absolutely insane. I’ve suggested a threesome since we’ve done it before but she’s said she’s happy that we only did that once. I respect it. But other suggestions get ignored mainly. I just want some new excitement in the bedroom besides the point A to point B route we always take. It’s amazing but it’s stuff we do at home anyway. I want to basically go unhinged with her and she doesn’t seem to be entertaining it.
What would you all do if you weren’t really being heard?