u/RoseCollared

First things first: I’m looking for the right person to build a connection with and eventually establish a D/s dynamic. I’d like to take the time to get to know each other before anything too exciting happens. Compatibility of kinks is great, but it's essential to me that we have chemistry.

I’m open to long-distance; time zones and travel are manageable for me. I would however like to text somewhat regularly and call every now and then. If it all works out, I’d also love to meet IRL.

I’m poly and in a relationship with a wonderful partner. We’re mostly vanilla, but we support each other in pursuing connections with other people, including kinky ones. And I would love to welcome an affectionate and meaningful power dynamic to my life.

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Executive Summary: Tall, skinny, bisexual, androgynous, ambivert, INTJ-A, gemini, slut. This is what I look like!

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More About Me: I’d describe myself as soft and playful boy with a somewhat feminine energy. I like going for walks with my camera in the big city or in nature. Next to photography, I like cooking, design, psychology, coding and fashion. I’m very detail-oriented and love putting my skills to work to bring joy to other people.

As an ambivert, I love cuddling up on the couch for a night in, but I can also thrive in a more social environment if the energy is right. I can be a bit quiet but I’m actually not that shy! If we ever run out of conversation topics you can always ask me about what books I’ve been reading, or tell me about those cute shoes you want to buy.

In daily life I work as a software engineer. I enjoy my job and it’s a big part of my life, but ultimately the relationships with people close to me are what I value most. I think I'm pretty good at balancing those things, but taking actual rest is something I tend to struggle with.

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The Kinky Stuff: I've been actively exploring kink for a few years now, and I've had so much fun discovering myself throughout this journey. I've learned that submission lets me connect with someone on a very deep and intimate level, which is something I crave. It also helps me turn off my brain a little (or a lot), focusing on the doing rather than the thinking, which is such a relief. It just feels so good to let someone else take control, knowing that they will handle me with care and put me back together afterwards.

My feminine side also plays a role in my kinky identity. I enjoy simple things in daily life like wearing cute outfits, skincare and painting my nails, but in a sexual context it really amplifies all the good feelings. I love wearing heels and lingerie; they make me feel really pretty and desirable. All of femininity just feels like this forbidden world that I get to play around in, and I’d love it if someone wanted to guide me through it.

I’m very lucky to have had a few fabulous experiences both IRL and online, but I'm still hoping to find a mutually satisfying and sustainable dynamic. Some things I definitely enjoy are impact play, orgasm control, service, pegging and all things oral. I’m curious about chastity, affectionate humiliation and denial.

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Hard Limits: anything involving money, permanent body modification, scat, blood, alcohol or drugs. I do not enjoy “sissification” or mocking of femininity.

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Now You: These are some words that come up to me: kind, caring, possessive, emotionally intelligent, conscientious, ambitious, boss bitch. You don’t have to fit in any particular box as long as you’re a kind and genuine human being.

If you like what you’ve read about me so far, I’d love to talk to you! A simple message is always appreciated ✨