Wife hates blowjobs
ntimacy issues in marriage
So I 32 and my wife 32 have been together since we were 16 and we've never had issues with sex overall, we were each others firsts for pretty much everything. She has always hated oral, just genuinely dislikes it and if she does it, it's more like a chore for her, she also doesn't like to participate during sex either, it's always got to be a position where she can just layback, either missionary, doggy, she hates being on top. I'm not complaining, the sex itself is still great and tbh she wants it more than I do she asks multiple times a week sometimes multiple times a day. I have no reference and neither does she so I could be horrible and I'm not super endowed or anything, about 7 inches long and the thickness of a toilet paper tube (yeah I checked 😂 ) my issue is I wish she would contribute more to sex and was more willing with Oral, when she does do it she just watches stuff on her phone the entire time, also I love giving oral aswell so that isn't an issue either. Looking for tips, always down to hear where I could make improvements open to any and all tips thank you!