Specifically soiling is a kink I'd like to explore further and I'm looking for like-minded folk.
From time to time I like to lock myself into my clothes so I can't escape the nastiness that is coming. I'm also into rubber/latex and heavy bondage. If you find this interesting (both as the giving or receiving end) or just like to chat, send me a message.
Send me a PM if you want to hang out and chat about messy kinks. For me this means bathroom control, mud play or food play. Especially with some rubber suit or heavy bondage.
Look forward to your chats.
Looking for any kind of open/poly relationship. Prefer something that goes deeper than just kinks, but play-partners can also be fun. Age between 25 and 55.
About me
Depending on my mood you can find me immersed in a book, toying with handicrafts or DIY. I also like playing games from time to time. Kinks are not only a matter of practice to me. I like to get into the philosophy of it as well. Power dynamics are interesting to explore as a concept though I have to confess, I do sometimes get a bit too cerebral about things.
I identify as ace/demisexual. Doesn't mean I won't ever be into anything sexual, but don't expect have lust-fuelled play from me. The connection we'd share is important to me, so even if we vibe on kinks, we still might not be a good match (and vice versa, I suppose).
There isn’t a particular kind of relationship I’m looking for. Anything from chat buddies, to play partners or something more substantial is both in the cards as far as I am concerned. I do value honesty in this regard. its important for me that we keep each other updated on our feelings and expectations. More involved relationships ask for openness and a willingness to share.
Kinks
Heavy rubber is a big turn-on. Strict bondage, hypnosis, sensory depravation, encasement, sleeping in cages and humiliation are the kind of things I like to get into. Anything physically restrictive, really. In that I like the more drawn out stuff, where dronification plays a big part, but also more intense scenes.
Currently also getting back into hypnosis and I want to explore this some more with someone I can trust.
Lastly I'm into anal, gags but also messy and humiliation kinks such as bathroom control/play, food-play or mud. Though I like humiliation play, I am still trying to figure out what I exactly like about it, because I've found out that I don't enjoy it when this kind of play actively undermines confidence or seeps into real-life in other ways.
Turn-offs
While I'm not against an online relationship, there are some turn-offs that make this more difficult. I don't really like to share pictures or video, especially as part of a (play)session. I'm just not that exhibitionistic while being rather privacy focused.