u/Sad-Event-2568

As the title alludes to, I'm looking for something a little different. Maybe a a little less conventional. No shade to those vanilla folks out there, but I'm here because I need something more. Someone more.

I'm hoping to establish and build a strong connection and dynamic with a confident, may I say, dominant, woman. Someone who knows what they want in a relationship and has no problem saying so and taking the lead. Together, I'd like to cultivate a safe, kink-friendly, explorative space for the two of us to be curious and adventurous together.

I'm a married dad in SE Michigan. I'm content with what I have at home but have been desiring more for a long time. I have attention and adoration ready to give, and devotion for the right person. Physically, I'm tall and athletic at 6:3" with a toned muscular build. I have blonde hair, blue eyes like windows into my core, trimmed beard, long legs, and am well-groomed. I workout daily and take self care seriously.

You should also be married. Age is less important than the ability to connect, communicate, understand, and relate. You should be confident, kinky, and open-minded. Someone who enjoys seeing a strong man submit and say "yes, ma'am." You should be in SE Michigan, or willing/able to travel here frequently enough to make it worth it for both of us.

I don't expect to rush into the spicy stuff right off the bat, but I want to make it clear where I have my sights set. I want to build the tension and excitement through mutual interest and curiosity in each other. I don't expect constant communication, but we should be able to be clear and open with our availability.

Let's get to know each other, become interested in each other, and discover the buttons and sweet spots.

Here I am, looking for that special someone. Someone to be both nervous and excited about at the same time. Someone that pushes for all of me and wants to share all of themself.

I've made some great connections, but I'm looking for that one person that I know is out there. The relationship that shows what all the others were missing or why they fell short. I'm not here to waste your time or mine. We should both know what we want rather than making concessions or trying to make something work just because of proximity or physical attraction. It has to all be there. The connection, the communication, the attraction, the interest, the desire, the curiosity. I'm chasing after all this someone who, like me, is engaged in our connection yet respectful of the lives we both have outside of this.

About me:

Married (obviously) dad to two young kids, genuine, kind, athletic. I enjoy sarcasm, teasing, banter, but also getting to know you and sharing about me. I'm interested in hearing about your day, your dreams, and your regrets. Physically I'm tall with long legs, muscular, blonde hair, blue eyes you can get lost in, and well-groomed. I'm well-read, enjoy cooking and baking, board games, hiking, camping, anything outdoors.

About you:

Married mom, bonus if you're in a similar stage of parenting. They're a huge part of our lives and really makes it easier to relate if we're on similar parenting journeys. A clear communicator who is reliable and willing to get vulnerable and be curious. Someone who takes care of themselves mentally and physically; self-care says a lot about who we are. Local to SE Michigan, preferably within an hour of DTW, or travel here regularly. As much as I undoubtedly will enjoy talking with you and getting to know you, this has to have the potential of moving in person for me.

I don't want to upend either of our home lives and I acknowledge the importance of what we both have. Yet I am willing and able to make time and space for this to be a true relationship, with the appropriate boundaries that keep us both safe and secure. A way to achieve what we are otherwise missing, without hindering anything at home. I want to get to know you, be curious and excited about you, explore together. Not trying to force anything, but also not being afraid to make the space for feelings that arise. I understand that we won't be able to talk 24/7 or even see each other as frequently as we like, but there needs to be an equal level of effort. I'm here to find something good, lasting, and worth being here for. Because, after all, the risk had better be damn well worth the reward.

At risk of making this excessively long, I'll end it here. If what I've written interests you, please reach out with some information about yourself and why you decided to reach out.

Wishing you an absolutely splendid day today ❤️

Disclaimer: new account, but not new here.

I've made some great connections, but I'm looking for that one person that I know is out there. The relationship that shows what all the others were missing or why they fell short. I'm not here to waste your time or mine. We should both know what we want rather than making concessions or trying to make something work just because of proximity or physical attraction. It has to all be there. The connection, the communication, the attraction, the interest, the desire, the curiosity. I'm chasing after all this, someone who, like me, is engaged yet respectful of the lives we both have outside of this.

About me:

Married (obviously), dad to two young kids, genuine, kind, athletic, probably not the person most would expect to be here. I enjoy sarcasm, teasing, banter, but also getting to know you and sharing about me. Hearing about your day, your dreams, and your regrets. Physically I'm tall, muscular, blonde hair, dreamy blue eyes, and well-groomed. I'm well-read, enjoy cooking and baking, board games, hiking, camping, anything outdoors.

About you:

Married mom, preferably of younger kids. It makes it pretty hard for us to relate otherwise. A clear communicator who is reliable and willing to get vulnerable and be curious. Someone who takes care of themselves mentally and physically; self-care says a lot about who we are. Local to SE Michigan, preferably within an hour of DTW, or travel here regularly. As much as I undoubtedly will enjoy talking with you and getting to know you, this has to have the potential of moving in person for me.

I don't want to upend either of our home lives and I acknowledge the importance of what we both have. Yet I am willing and able to make time and space for this to be a true relationship, with the appropriate boundaries that keep us both safe and secure. A way to achieve what we are otherwise missing, without hindering anything at home. I want to get to know you, be curious and excited about you, explore together. Not trying to force anything, but also not being afraid to make the space for feelings that arise.

At risk of making this excessively long, I'll end it here. If what I've written interests you, please reach out with some information about yourself and why my post intrigued you.

Wishing you all kindness as you go throughout your day today ❤️