u/Salt-Temporary-2948

As the title says, last weekend my wife(41) and I (53) had some time alone because our kid was at a sleepover. We had an incredible talk over about a 2 hour period. I asked her about her past sex life which I had never done. I told her that I found it really hot hearing how many men she had been with. I then told her I think it would be really hot seeing her with another guy and maybe even participating. She was turned on by the idea and open to it. She said she would like to take a month to think about it. I can't stop thinking about it. This morning she made casual reference that she told a friend that she and I had a really good talk. She didn't give her any details. When she referenced it, I became incredibly aroused. Im still unsure but excited over all. Any advice?