Ladies what messages are you getting, what do you see in a man's profile
I've a SD for about 5 years. I'm 55 with enough income to support this lifestyle. It used to be I could pay for a month on SA and meet 2-3 women for lunch during that period. Now it is pretty common that a woman won't even look at my profile after I've sent an initial message. If we do send a few messages back and forth, she stops responding after a few msgs and I can never get to a lunch date.
I've posted my profile here for review and gotten good advice. The thing I keep hearing is sugaring is much different than it was 5 years ago and it's obvious. Ladies, what are you seeing in a man's profile, and what kind of msgs are you getting? I'm curious to hear from women in big cities and especially smaller ones like Cedar Rapids, IA. The dating scene in a smaller Midwest city has got to be way different than the big city. What am I missing? Is there a good person on TicTok or something who has advice videos? Real advice videos, not women talking about how to get your entire life paid for.
My initial messages show I've read her profile. It reads something like this:
"Hi there. It's nice to see a terrific smile like yours on this site!! It's kind of rare. You mention making memories. The butterflies in the pic are huge. What memories go along with the pic?"