Women who have hired a provider, what was it like?

I’m a woman that is considering hiring a provider after getting burnt out on the apps-there’s so much mediocre dick out there and I would just like one really good lay. I’m bi so would be interested in seeing a woman, too. But there are so fewer men offering this service, and many have less than impressive profiles and I’ll be so upset if I spend money only to get the same shitty attitude and total lack of understanding of my pleasure that a lot of men seem to have. If anyone has any success stories, or lessons/warnings, I’d love to hear them!

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u/Sea_Buddy681 — 3 days ago

36 [R4R] #Ravenswood - Looking For Good Sex With A Good Person

I've had some success here, but I'm looking for something specific and willing to be patient for the right person.

I am hoping to find someone for a consistent, ongoing FWB situation with someone whose company I actually enjoy. How much time we spend together outside of the bedroom is up for negotiation, but I enjoy sex a lot more when there's decent conversation and I enjoy my partner as a human being.

I'm 5'9", 36, non-binary AFAB (they/them pronouns) and on the thicker/curvier/chubbier side, but pretty physically active so I am soft *and* strong :) I like to keep busy and enjoy rowing, powerlifting, dancing, D&D (both playing and watching!), reading, crochet, theater, swimming, camping, and learning to become an urban cyclist. I'm also a long-time anarchist and connecting with someone who is at least somewhat politically aligned would be ideal!

I'm open to all types of people and all genders and bodies, but I am absolutely not interested in connecting with straight men. Good chemistry and being a person I enjoy connecting with is a lot more important to me than checking a list of physical attributes. However, I'm also not interested in anyone who needs something "discreet"/cheaters, people trying to get over a break up, or people who struggle with honest communication.

I'd also like to find someone who is reasonably kink-experienced and open to incorporating kink into sex, but also enjoys vanilla, too. I'm a true switch and open to most things--happy to talk more in DMs about specific interests and curiosities.

I'm hoping you are queer and into queer and queer-presenting folks, have hobbies and interests outside of work and watching TV, and would also like something ongoing and respectful but also playful and dirty :)

If you've messaged me before and I haven't responded, feel free to shoot your shot again--my inbox gets busy and I can't reply to everyone. However, low effort replies won't get a response. Would like to exchange SFW pics shortly after starting to chat.

Looking fwd to hearing from you :)

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u/Sea_Buddy681 — 9 days ago

Finally Got A Creampie From Daddy Last Night

I’m in my mid 30s and for years have had an age gap kink where I’m so turned on by the idea of getting fucked by an older man. I matched with someone on the apps recently who’s in his early 60s. I was pretty straightforward with him and told him that I desperately needed a daddy and was turned on by older men. He said he would be interested in fulfilling that need for me and we agreed to meet for coffee next week to see how the vibes were.

Well, flash forward to last night. I was having trouble sleeping because I was so horny and I messaged him to confirm our plans next week. He messaged me back right away and remarked that I was up late. I told him I couldn’t sleep and he asked if there was anything I could do. I told him if he was here he could give me a back rub but otherwise there wasn’t anything I could think of. He offered to come over. It was like 12:30AM and I usually don’t invite strange men to my house in the middle of the night, but I was so fucking turned on by the idea of finally having my dream fulfilled of being fucked by an older man that I sent him my address.

He arrived not too long after and came in and we laid in my bed. He has a dad bod and was dressed like a stereotypical dad in cargo shorts and a button-down shirt and had thinning white hair. He was absolutely perfect for what I was looking for. He started kissing me and caressing me and telling me that I was such a good girl and that Daddy was going to take care of me. He rubbed my breasts and sucked on my nipples and kept telling me what I good girl I was. He teased my thighs and squeezed my ass and finally put his hands in my shorts. I was wearing little pajama shorts with no panties so he had easy access to me.

He finally started teasing my outer lips and gently pushed my legs apart. I was absolutely soaking wet at this point. He told me he was proud of me for getting so wet for my Daddy and started to tease my clit. He rubbed faster and harder and then asked me to cum for him and all I wanted to do was to make my Daddy happy so I came on his fingers. He kept rubbing my clit and teasing my opening and I came several more times while he licked my nipples and told me I was Daddy’s little girl and I came several more times. He gave me lots of sweet kisses on my mouth and neck and forehead and told me that he liked taking care of me and being my Daddy.

Finally, he guided my hand towards his cock. I was surprised by how thick it was, but wasn’t surprised to find it was hard and that he had made a lot of precum. I started stroking it and he told me I was doing such a good job making him feel good. After a few minutes, he said “Daddy wants to be inside you” and I told him I wanted my Daddy to be inside me, too.

He got on top of me and pushed his thick cock into my pussy. It felt so, so good to finally have my Daddy inside me. He started fucking me slowly and he told me that he liked how wet and tight my little pussy was. He kept sliding in and out of me and I could tell he was getting close. He kissed me and asked “can Daddy cum inside of you?” I told him I wanted him to fill me up and wanted my Daddy’s cum inside me so badly. He climaxed and told me “Daddy loves his little girl” and his load was so, so big. I could feel him fill my pussy up and his cum start gushing out of me. It ran down onto my asshole and made a big puddle on my bed. He laid on top of me with his cock inside me for awhile and then gently slid out and even more cum gushed out of me. He gently kissed my face and caressed me and thanked me for making Daddy feel so good. We laid together for awhile and I rubbed my clit lazily to enjoy feeling his cum all over my pussy. After a little while get got dressed and kissed me goodbye and went home around 3AM.

I got out my magic wand and gave myself another orgasm using his cum as lube and then fell asleep with his cum slowly leaking out of my pussy. When I woke up I masturbated again thinking about how good he made me feel.

My Daddy is married and has his own kids and a busy life, but I really hope that he can come and fill up my little pussy again soon <3

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u/Sea_Buddy681 — 20 days ago

36 [R4R] #Ravenswood - Looking for Casual, Kind, Consistent

36 year old non-binary AFAB person looking for cuties who want to build sexy but sweet connections!

I’d love to find someone with whom I have good sexual chemistry and is also a good conversationalist for ongoing, consistent connections. My ideal situation is that we meet up once a week-ish and make each other feel great and then maybe have some food and cuddles and a nice chat before going our separate ways.

I’m 5’9” and on the thicker/curvy/chubbier side, but am very physically active. I’m strong and mobile ;) I am attracted to all genders and bodies and have had great sexual connections with all different types of people. Being a decent person and a thoughtful lover is much more important to me than physical attributes. I do, however, strongly prefer that you are 30+.

I have all kinds of sexual interests from vanilla to kinky, singles/couples/groups, passionate and sensual, rough, or playful-I’m open to most things with good communication and consent!

DM me if you’re interested, but low-effort messages won’t get a response. After we’ve established we like talking to each other, I’d love to exchange photos and then meet up and see how things go. Irl connections are much more fun than messaging! If all of this sounds good to you I would very much love to hear from you :)

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u/Sea_Buddy681 — 1 month ago

36 [R4R] #Ravenswood - Looking for Sexy, Playful, Kind Connections This Summer!

36 y/o, AFAB, they/them non-binary person looking for partner(s?) of any/all genders and bodies for casual but sweet and fun connections this summer!

At a bare minimum, I’m expecting people to be chill and respectful about my gender and pronouns; communicative in and out of the bedroom, and equally invested in their partner’s pleasure as their own.

I’m into all kinds of different people, but strongly prefer folks who are 30+. We don’t have to be bffs but I’m looking for someone(s) who are pleasant to converse with and be around! Open to couples as well as individuals. I have a kinky side, but need to build up to feeing safe to exploring that with someone.

I’m on the curvy/chubby/thicker side but very active, have a good handful of hobbies and stay busy but will be happy to make time for the right person!

Messages with SFW or face pics will get the most attention, and receive mine in return. Please don’t send just a dick pic 🤦 Tell me about what summer activity you’re enjoying the most so I know you read this!

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u/Sea_Buddy681 — 3 months ago