u/SeattleSpoiledGirl

As a sugar baby, I have a serious question...

Do successful men actually care if a woman wears wigs, extensions, or a weave?

I've heard everything from:

"I only date natural women."

"As long as it looks good, I don't care."

"I paid for the install anyway." 😂

Be honest..

If she looks amazing, smells incredible, is feminine, kind, and treats you well... does it really matter whether the hair grew out of her scalp?

Ladies, have you ever been rejected because of your hair?

Gentlemen, what's your preference and why?

Let's hear the unpopular opinions. 🍿

I never actually went to one, but I remember hearing about the Sugar Daddy mixers that Seeking used to host and I've always wondered if they were beneficial. If Seeking brought them back, WOULD YOU GO? I would!

I feel like an actual in-person mixer with successful men and women looking for mutually beneficial relationships could be way more interesting than endless swiping.

Would you go; or would you be too scared to walk into a room full of sugar daddies and sugar babies? 😂

I've been thinking about this and I'm curious.

Let's just say money wasn't even a factor. You could afford anything and ANYONE you wanted.

Would you rather invest into one incredible woman who makes your life better or would you rather casually date multiple women and enjoy the variety?

I'm less interested in the "right" answer and more interested in why...

Gentlemen, what's your choice; and what made you come to that conclusion? 🍿

I’m on a weight-loss journey and I’ve officially lost 20+ pounds. I’m proud of the progress, but I’m curious about something from the men’s perspective; especially sugar daddies.

Do you notice a woman’s confidence more than her body size?

Has a woman becoming more confident, dressing differently, or carrying herself differently ever made you more attracted to her; even if her body wasn’t traditionally “perfect”?

And for the men who date women of different body types: what actually makes a woman stand out to you?

Hey sugar crew! I haven't been on here in a while.

Seattle wasn't serving a purpose for me at the moment so I've decided to venture out and move. Have I missed anything while I was away? Somebody tell me something wild while I'm getting ready to go to brunch.

I haven't been on here in so long. I've been juggling a few things and wish I can juggle something else... Anyways... My SD and I are no longer together.... Remember the one I said where he was inconsistent.... He confessed and said he met someone but he did say he will do what he can to help me .. I apologize if I sound selfish but am I wrong for saying I wanted all with him? Not like get married or anything but he was the perfect SD in my eyes... Very handsome, older, ALWAYS took care of me in and outside the bedroom and one day... It just stopped. It started as a per meet arrangement but as we got closer, I wanted more and even I knew he couldn't give me that but I had a little bit of hope... Just wishing and thinking but nope... He stuck with his plans while I was thinking it would be different. I am back to the drawing board trying to find a replacement but it's difficult because I truly feel there aren't any good ones left ... Sigh. Let me drink this lemon drop and wipe my tears. I hate being emotional. All I wanted was someone to... You know what .. never mind.

This is an open discussion. Do you ever feel sad when the arrangement ends? Or it's more like it is what it is and you knew what you signed up for.... I only ask because I was in an arrangement with this guy back in January. It was PPM based. As we got to know each other, at least on my side, the feelings grew. He was very compassionate, fun to be around, honest and I felt like I could text him or call for advice (not just monetary) I noticed he has been distant and he constantly tells me it's not me blah blah blah, but I call bull. I am very intuitive, so I know for a fact he has another SB or at least someone on the side. He's not calling it off, I am... Because truthfully, when I enter an arrangement, I value longevity versus the wham bam, thank you ma'am. Am I being selfish because I want long term versus just six months of fun?

I came here on a solo trip and I wasn't expecting a little rain. Does that mean it's going to rain sugar too ;) Anyways, it's always fun to be spontaneous and hop on a plane just to sight see, eat different foods and network. How's the bowl here?

I don't have solid proof but now that I have your attention, I've been told that there's multiple profiles of me on Seeking in different cities. When I asked how many, they said 10! Now why in the world would I personally have THAT MANY profiles in rotation? I can see two just in case I forgot my password or it's been so long since I've logged in but 10 is ridiculous. 😂 Someone is really trying to scam! I actually prefer phone conversations following up with meeting in person if we both feel the chemistry. Hopefully this made someone laugh.

Has this happened to you?