u/Several-Subject-2111

wife going on date with a XL guy tonight? Says she is not a size queen

My wife has had freedom to meet other guys for a while now. She has had quite a few FWBs over the years and we have never had problems. We have kids and are very stable. Tonight she is going on a date with a guy who says he is XXL.

She didn't pick him for that reason but because she likes the way he looks and he has great body. I believe her, until now she has mostly been with average or slightly above guys. She says she is not into XL as she fear getting hurt by them (happened in the past). She comes easily from average sized dick (mine included haha). What i am wondering is can she still become a size queen if she meets one she likes? Dick size is defo not the most important thing for her - i am sure she would never go for a guy she is not into only because he has an xl.

Do you think she could ever become more into it with the right guy? This aspect does turn me on i admit, but i have accepted it is not an important thing for her so have never pushed it.

Is it possible one guy can change her mind on things, even after years of having a settled opinion about it?

UPDATE. She says she likes him, they kissed. She is going to his place on Friday evening. Tonight they just met for a drink in a cafe

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u/Several-Subject-2111 — 2 days ago

Both have advantages/ disadvantages. I lean more towards the older reliable type. My wife still seems to want the younger even though they mess her arround constantly. I think it is because we go together young. She was 21. So she remembers dating young men and things she still should.

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u/Several-Subject-2111 — 4 months ago