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I’ve always been curious about swinging/open environments, and my boyfriend is interested too. We tried a few apps in the past and honestly had a lot of fun chatting to people, but when it came to actually meeting up irl, we both realised we probably weren’t fully ready for that step yet.

I recently came across Virtue & Vice, and it actually seems like a really good starting point for us because there’s no pressure to participate. You can just observe, socialise, and get comfortable with the environment first.

I’ve done OnlyFans in the past, so I’m not particularly shy about my body or being in sexual spaces, which is partly why I feel like this kind of environment could suit me. My main concern is whether my boyfriend will actually feel comfortable once it becomes “real” rather than just a fantasy or an online thing.

Has anyone else started this way? What was your first experience like at clubs/events like this? Did it help ease you into the lifestyle, or did it make things more complicated? Any advice for nervous first timers would be appreciated :)

I’ve always been curious about swinging/open environments, and my boyfriend is interested too. We tried a few apps in the past and honestly had a lot of fun chatting to people, but when it came to actually meeting up irl, we both realised we probably weren’t fully ready for that step yet.

I recently came across Virtue & Vice, and it actually seems like a really good starting point for us because, from what I understand, there’s no pressure to participate. You can just observe, socialise, and get comfortable with the environment first.

I’ve done OnlyFans in the past, so I’m not particularly shy about my body or being in sexual spaces, which is partly why I feel like this kind of environment could suit me. My main concern is whether my boyfriend will actually feel comfortable once it becomes “real” rather than just a fantasy or online thing.

Has anyone else started this way? What was your first experience like at clubs/events like this? Did it help ease you into the lifestyle, or did it make things more complicated? Any advice for nervous first timers would be appreciated :)

I’ve always been curious about swinging/open environments, and my boyfriend is interested too. We tried a few apps in the past and honestly had a lot of fun chatting to people, but when it came to actually meeting up irl, we both realised we probably weren’t fully ready for that step yet.

I recently came across Virtue & Vice, and it actually seems like a really good starting point for us because, from what I understand, there’s no pressure to participate, and you can just observe, socialise, and get comfortable with the environment first.

I’ve done OnlyFans in the past, so I’m not particularly shy about my body or being in sexual spaces, which is partly why I feel like this kind of environment could suit me. My main concern is more about whether my boyfriend will actually feel comfortable once it becomes “real” rather than just a fantasy or online thing.

Has anyone else started this way? What was your first experience like at clubs/events like this? Did it help ease you into the lifestyle, or did it make things more complicated? Any advice for nervous first timers would be appreciated :)