u/ShoppingRegular4366

I am 22 M!

I have been struggling with dating in my 20s and exploring my sexuality. I have quite a lot of sexual trauma etc.

I have discovered I’m pretty exclusively interested in more dominant women in the bedroom (I think).

The power dynamic seems to be my main turn on rather than sex itself but that is obviously compatible with it !

I have dated around and almost every girl I’ve slept with has been more submissive and we have not been very sexually compatible.

I’m wondering are dominant women really rare? Do they exist more from male-focused porn fantasies ?

I really would never want my partner to have to change to fit my sexual desires so I’d love to meet someone who shares that interest but I fear it narrows my dating pool so much!!