u/Sierras313

Thanks for clicking. My name is Sam, 30M, based in London.

I am looking to build a long term D/s dynamic. Ideally we form a true friendship where we can share all aspects of our lives and not just kink. I’m naturally very assertive, so I have no problems guiding, giving instructions, setting boundaries, and being stern if the occasion arises. I tend to lean to be more of a soft Dom, but in my experience the exact nature of my domination or your submission always tends to come down to how we vibe and interact with each other.

It would be great if this is something that leads to irl, but that is not essential to me. Online dynamics can be very fulfilling in their own way.

I do have a sub side, so someone who occasionally enjoys switching would be awesome, but not a requirement at all.

About me:
My personality evolves around intelligence and humour. I’m kind, caring, attentive, communicative, and compassionate. I like to bring all of these things to all relationships in my life, but I feel like these are things the serve particularly well in this type of dynamic.

My interests are fairly nerdy, I listen to lots of fantasy audiobooks (currently listening to the Fraseer trilogy) so I’m always open to suggestions, other series I love are Harry Potter and the king killer chronicles. My all time favourite movies are the Lord of the rings trilogy but I will watch any sort of comedy, no matter how awful. I’m also a gamer which I think signals the full nerd trifecta, but I’ll leave it up to you to judge.

My less nerdy interesting are cooking, football, cats, and making people laugh.

I’m tall, white, with shortish brown hair and dark stubble, or sometimes a short beard, with an average body type.

About you:
I am attracted to kindness and intelligence. Someone who wants to laugh and joke around as part of our dynamic would be perfect, as well as sharing hobbies or interests.

I don’t have a strong preference for what your submission looks like. In the past people who like to behave and enjoy pleasing tend to mesh well with my natural more soft approach, but that doesn’t mean I can’t be more strict and discipline oriented if your submission demands it. I love setting task and routines so if you’re a service sub I think we’d get on very well.

This should be fun and fulfilling for both of us so I’m always very receptive to discussing your wants, needs, and desires. I am not a “what I say goes” type of Dom unless that has specifically been agreed to.

Things like your age, race, and body type are not super important to me. My only real requirements are that you are willing to swap sfw photos once we have established a rapport to see if there is mutual attraction, and you are genuinely seeking to explore a proper dynamic.

Kinks:
I’m very open to discussing kinks and I enjoy exploring new experiences, so if you don’t see something you’re into here please don’t think I’m not open to it.

My main kinks as a Dom are praise, orgasm control (both denial or overstimulation), edging, and clothing control.

Thanks for reading, and I hope to hear from you!