u/Silent_Slip_4250

Just wanted to share my frustration with this.

My partner and I are visiting a major city in SE Asia. We booked for massages in a boutique specialising for men having only male staff. All through WhatsApp.

Get to the time to go, we find it. It’s down a secret corridor, difficult to find but whatever. It’s what you do for an erotic experience.

We’re greeted, upsold to 90 minutes including 30 minutes of scrub, and taken to our separate rooms. I had asked about a shower previously and was shown to an appropriately dark and dingy shower that I would expect. All good so far.

Back in the room, a handsome, young, tall guy comes in and begins the massage. Starts at the feet and my legs. Really firm pressure which I appreciated. His hands were a bit rough for this line of work, but again no issues.

Around 30 minutes in, no real erotic touch. While I’m completely naked, he’s staying low on my thighs mostly, except for some work on glutes that was strictly limited to the meaty parts of the muscle.

Then, he left the room for a few minutes. Came back again. Massaged for a bit. Disappeared for like 3 minutes again. Odd.

Does the flip. He does the eye mask for me but I can see him pretty well. Starts down at my feet again. I can see he’s looking at my cock quite often. But it’s not sensual, so I go between soft and semi. Still avoiding getting anywhere near touching cock.

Gets up to my side and I decide I need to take a little more initiative. I place my hand on the back of his thigh while he’s working my stomach and chest. He leaves it for 10 seconds then takes it off and puts my arm back by my side.

I see the clock and we’re about 85 minutes in. No scrub yet. He disappears again. Gone for 5 minutes. Back with scrub and has me flip over again. Gets exfoliates everywhere. Flips and the same again. Nothing sensual at all. He tells me we’re done and gives me a towel to go back to shower.

Come back from shower, he’s gone. Another guy is in the room with all the lights on and is cleaning up the scrub that’s everywhere. He sees I still have a semi (I considered j/o in shower but realised we were way over time and my partner would be waiting). He asks about getting sucked and I said no nothing. I thought he might suck me then but no.

Dressed and went to leave. Partner was in the lobby waiting. Had been there more than 15 minutes after his sensual massage with extras and happy ending. No one in the lobby so we left.

I shared how disappointed I was. I had been looking forward to this for weeks.

Sent a message to the WhatsApp about being disappointed. They told me the guy was straight and new. They recommended three other guys for next time. There’s no next time because we left the city this morning.

Just a vent, really. Has anyone else gone for what is obviously an erotic massage and had a new straight guy afraid to do anything sensual?