r/eroticmalemassage

Hi everyone, I had a massage a few days ago where the massage therapist was an attractive man in his early 20s, now this was a place that is open relatively late on a Tuesday night. I was in need of a deep tissue massage but as this was one of the few places I could go at 8pm at night I went in anyway. After about 45 minutes of a pretty solid massage, he started to massage around my Glutes. I won't lie when I say I really enjoyed this experience... especially being in those paper fabric underwear they asked me to wear. As I started to moan a little due to the knots he was releasing his fingers started to go towards my groin. I found my self slowly spreading my legs a little wider, as his fingers started to caress my asshole. He would eventually pull the fabric undies aside and put some extra massage oil in that region, gently playing with my ass.... it was so overwhelming with sensations it turned me on so much,

Im starting to think I'm interested on going further and trying new things with other men now.

I went back this morning for the full-body scrub he mentioned after my massage yesterday. He put me in a different room, told me to undress, and lie on the table. There was no sheet covering me this time, which I was completely fine with. I stayed there naked while he came in and out setting things up.

At one point I told him I needed to use the restroom and started putting my shorts back on. He stopped me and said I didn’t need them. There was nobody else in the spa, so I walked out to the bathroom completely naked and came back the same way. By then I think my comfort level and interest were pretty clear.

I laid face down on the table and he placed a small towel over my ass before starting the scrub with a salt treatment on my back and arms. This session felt different from the start. He leaned into me more while he worked, and I could feel his bulge brush against my arm a few times. Always through his pants, always just out of reach, but definitely noticeable.

When he finished my back, he leaned across me and for a moment his balls settled into my hand. It only lasted a few seconds, but he didn’t immediately pull away either.

The towel came off and he worked on my ass and legs. During parts of the scrub my fingers brushed against his cock through his pants. Never anything overt, just fleeting contact as he moved naturally around the table, but long enough that it felt intentional on both sides. I’m a big believer in respecting the masseur and letting them control the situation, honestly the teasing and incidental contact is part of what makes it so erotic for me.

As he scrubbed my legs, there were a few light brushes against my balls, especially along my inner thighs. Nothing direct, nothing rushed, but definitely sensual.

When it was time to turn over, the towel was back covering my cock. He asked if I was okay with him working that area. I told him yes, everywhere, full body. He started on my legs while adjusting the towel, and I finally told him he could just remove it since everything had already been exposed anyway.

Once the towel was gone, the teasing continued. I got to feel him against my hands a little more through his pants, and he touched my hard cock a few times while working, though he never fully grabbed it.

Then the session ended.

Honestly, I was a little surprised nothing more happened considering some of the Yelp reviews I’d read beforehand. But in the end I was perfectly happy with the sensuality and tension of it all. I’m 62 years old, and at this point it’s not always about getting a release. Sometimes the anticipation, the chemistry, and the mutual awareness are enough.

Hi everyone, I had a massage a few days ago where the massage therapist was an attractive man in his early 20s, now this was a place that is open relatively late on a Tuesday night. I was in need of a deep tissue massage but as this was one of the few places I could go at 8pm at night I went in anyway. After about 45 minutes of a pretty solid massage, he started to massage around my Glutes. I won't lie when I say I really enjoyed this experience... especially being in those paper fabric underwear they asked me to wear. As I started to moan a little due to the knots he was releasing his fingers started to go towards my groin. I found my self slowly spreading my legs a little wider, as his fingers started to caress my asshole. He would eventually pull the fabric undies aside and put some extra massage oil in that region, gently playing with my ass.... it was so overwhelming with sensations it turned me on so much,

Im starting to think I'm interested on going further and trying new things with other men now.

I have never told anyone about this, but one of my clients thought it would be worth sharing as it is an unusual kink that might appeal to gay guys. 

I am a mid-30s, white, well-built personal trainer. Several years ago, I also got my certificate as a massage therapist, as I saw it as a complementary skill. 

I work in a big city, with two large universities, at one of the major gyms there. I see a lot of guys as their personal trainer (at the gym), a lot as their masseur (at a room at my home), and there is some overlap between the two groups.

I am also straight, not remotely interested in men sexually, but I do enjoy being a bull and the humiliation elements of using a guy’s girlfriend in front of him and making him a cuck. 

This psychology, I’ve come to realise, has started to play out in the massages I give. My clients are all between 20 to 50 years old. I get a lot of college students, as I offer a discount with university ID. 

I’d say maybe a third of my clients are gay and two-thirds are straight, and it’s with the straight guys I enjoy this most. 

I like to chat with them throughout their massage about sex, hearing how they treat their wives or GFs, or what they do on a one-night-stand, share stories of my own, and generally make it a horny atmosphere. 

I am a very good listener, and encourage graphic details, as I enjoy hearing it, and I know it will turn the guy on telling me. I also make sure that the massage is very sensuous, very teasing—but never touches his dick and balls. 

By the time the guy turns over, pretty much every straight guy is rock hard. I can’t recall a single guy who wasn’t. 

I fold the sheet in half and expose one leg and one side of his body, and have the fold cover his dick. Then I massage the stomach and upper legs for a long time in nice, elongated strokes. Then I fold it the other way and do the other side. 

I’ll say something like, “Well, it’s probably about at time, I should finish there.”

And they will either say something like, “do you do anything else?” or “maybe you could take the towel off?” 

Or if they don’t say anything, I’ll say “unless?” 

I’d say 95% of the guys find a way to ask me for a happy ending.

“Oh sorry mate,” I’ll say, “I didn’t mean that, I meant unless you wanna jerk yourself off? I don’t mind, I can see you’re horny.”

You can tell some are torn, like they have paid for a massage and understand it is an indignity to provide their own happy ending, but then they are mostly too horny not to jerk off, and stuffing a hard wet dick back into your pants is also an indignity.

So I watch pretty much every straight guy jerk himself off. Standing over him, to make it more embarrassing. 

There is a similarity to when I massage women, my hand rubbing their clit and they go crazy. With straight guys what I like is the surrender of the scene, that they lose control pleasuring themselves, in front of a guy who is not into them and won’t touch them. 

 Some try to make it seem sexy, some just lose themselves. There is a kind of intimacy is seeing their facial expressions as they climax. It’s a very private act I get to witness.

 I love the little dick dudes, as they are cute, but I think my favourites are definitely the big dick dudes who unload super quick, as that is more emasculating. I say something like “Wow, that didn’t take long.” And smile at them.

Then I give them a tissue and watch them wipe it up from their stomach or chest. I usually only give one tissue to begin with, as it’s hot seeing it disintegrate with the volume of cum and the oil, and seeing him just sort of smear it into himself.

“Sorry bro,” I’ll say as I give him another couple.

I think what I like about this scenario is it has vibes of cucking the guy, but it is low key. And it is hot seeing a straight guy get so horny, he unloads himself in front of another guy like that. 

Many guys come back, and there is clearly something that appeals to these guys about jerking off in front of another guy.

Over the last five years, I’ve probably seen 500 straight men pleasure themselves in front of me for my entertainment, and I’ve never once touched a cock. It’s a real niche I’ve found.

Wanted to share the story of my favorite massage from a couple years ago. I was on a work trip and I visited a spa/sauna. This is the type of place where it’s gender separated and everyone goes naked in the wet area, saunas, and locker room (think Korean or Russian style spa).

I had been to the place once before on a previous work trip, but I had just enjoyed the facilities and not gotten any treatment (they offer massages and body scrubs). This second trip I decided to book a massage ahead of time. I arrived about an hour before my massage to enjoy the hot tub and sauna a bit. The place provides you with a sheet and a towel when you arrive, which I stowed in my locker while I enjoyed the wet area.

About 10 minutes before my appointment time, I went out to my locker, grabbed the sheet, wrapped my towel around my waist, and waited in the lounge area. Right on time, my therapist comes out to the locker room area and calls my name. He was a little older than me (I was in my early 30s, I’d place him at late 40s or early 50s). He introduced himself with a friendly handshake and led me back to a much quieter corridor with small treatment rooms on both sides, all with curtains for privacy.

Now this whole time I had been wondering whether or not I would be draped for this massage. Considering this is a facility where all the patrons are walking around totally naked, it seemed silly to consider modesty, but I had no idea what to expect.

Anyway, he leads me into one of the treatment rooms about halfway down the hallway and closes the curtain behind us. It’s a small, dimly lit room with a massage table in the center and some nice-smelling things around the walls. He asks me for my sheet and I hand it to him. He takes the sheet and fits it on top of the table. He then tells me to go ahead and lie face down on the table and place my face in the hole. He’s facing away from me getting his oil ready as I remove my towel and lie face down as instructed.

I laid there for about 15-30 seconds as he continued to prepare, wondering the whole while whether I was about to be covered with a sheet or not. Then I felt 2 big, warm, strong hands pushing down firmly on my shoulders and I had my answer – I was going to be exposed for this whole experience.

I had no problem with this. As I mentioned I was already naked with a bunch of strangers over in the wet area, so I wasn’t particularly shy. But this one-on-one dynamic and ESPECIALLY the fact that I was butt naked and he was fully clothed made me a little nervous and excited.

Anyway, he proceeded with the massage without much conversation. It felt really good, his massage was just the right pressure (a little painful in some muscle areas, but that good kind of pain). I was feeling pretty relaxed and enjoying myself thoroughly. A couple times he asked how I was doing and if the pressure was all good, which I assured him it was, but other than that he didn’t really say much. When doing my butt and legs his hands got pretty close to my balls without ever coming into direct contact with them, and he didn’t linger in those areas any longer than appropriate, so I felt confident there wasn’t going to be any funny business (which I wasn’t looking for anyway).

Anyway, after about 40 minutes, he finished up on my backside and asked me to flip over. Now, he had been facing away from me when I first removed my towel and got on the table, so he hadn’t seen my penis yet. Up to this point of the massage, it had been tucked up toward my belly button and had gone through varying degrees of erection. Right now, at the end of the face-down portion, I’d say I was about half-mast. Definitely noticeably plumped up, but not hard enough to stand up away from my body.

I hesitated for just a moment, and then flipped over. I was feeling a crazy mix of nerves, embarrassment, and exhilaration. He removed the face hole in the table and replaced it with a pillow under my head all while I had my eyes closed. When he was finished with that, I opened them and glanced at him. He was staring directly at my crotch, but when he noticed my eyes were open he quickly looked away, and I pretended I hadn’t noticed anything.

He started on my legs, working from the feet upwards. I was concentrating pretty intensely on trying not to get a full-on erection. But when he got to my upper legs, that became a losing battle. I quickly rose to complete full-mast and remained that way for the rest of the session. He didn’t mention a thing about it, but I did notice him glancing at the area more than once. He also began making some friendly chit chat with me at that point. I think he was doing that to help distract me from any embarrassment I may have been feeling, which I appreciated.

After working both legs, he said he wanted to do some stretching, which I said was fine. One leg at a time he grabbed my ankle, pulled my leg out to the side, held the stretch, and then shook my leg to loosen it up. This made my erection bounce and bob around in a very obvious way, but he still didn’t mention anything about it, even though it was all I could think about.

After the stretching, he moved up behind my head and began working on my chest. He was still making friendly conversation as he worked my chest, but every time his hands ran over my nipples, my penis jumped pretty obviously and I was sure he noticed.

After some time spent on my chest, he moved to my side and began to work on my abdomen. He started at the top with back and forth strokes with both hands, and slowly worked down over and past my naval, to about the top of my pubic hair. Now by this point his wrist was definitely coming into incidental contact with the head of my penis, which was pointing firmly up toward my belly button. I closed my eyes, embarrassed that I was likely leaking pre-cum on his wrist. He asked if I was ok and I nodded. I wasn’t sure if he was going to try and take it further or not. But finally after about a minute or 2 of the lower abdominal massage, he took one hand and placed it gently in the center of my chest and said that we were finished. 

He said to take my time getting up. I laid still for a moment, and then stood up beside the table. I was still completely erect, but didn’t bother wrapping my towel around me yet because what was the point? I collected my watch and wallet and paid using his tablet, all the while standing there in front of him completely naked and 100% hard. I noticed he was definitely looking at my penis throughout the payment process, but at this point I had no secrets from this man.

My payment went through. He thanked me for the generous tip and said he hoped I’d come back and see him again. The next time I’m in the area for work, I definitely will.

I went to a small massage place in a strip center in Mexico and booked a ninety-minute session. I honestly expected nothing more than a professional massage, though I was definitely hoping there might be some mutual interest. I tried to give subtle signals while staying respectful and letting him set the tone.

He kept a sheet draped over my back at first. I mentioned twice that I didn’t really need it, but the sheet stayed. The massage itself started out very professional and genuinely good. Every now and then his thigh would brush against my hand or arm, and I’d lightly brush my fingers back to show I was comfortable with the contact. As the session went on, the contact with his thighs lasted a little longer, though he was always very careful with his positioning. The most I really got was my hand against his thigh or leg when he moved my arms around.

When he worked on my legs, he didn’t tuck the drape in tightly, but he did place it carefully between my legs and against the table, clearly keeping boundaries in place. Things shifted a bit naturally when he moved my legs to work my hips. I definitely started reacting when he focused on my upper thighs, though he never got directly close to anything.

When it was time to roll over, he seemed to hold the drape up just a second longer than necessary. He worked my legs again, and this time the contact between my hands and his thighs lingered more, but he still stayed carefully positioned. I was obviously getting harder by then, and there were a few brief brushes of his hand against my cock, though they were quick enough to still feel accidental or at least plausibly so. After some chest work, the session wrapped up. I got a very relaxing professional massage.

I paid, figuring I’d head back to my hotel and take care of myself the old-fashioned way. Then, right before I left, he mentioned they also do facials and full-body scrubs. I clarified, “Full-body scrub?” He smiled, confirmed it, and motioned down his body.

So now I’m going back tomorrow morning.

Been seeing MT for a few months. "Additional services" started with the 2nd visit and have been progressing with each subsequent visit. We've discussed that we are both consenting adults and he's acknowledged having fun as well, so it seems like it's gone past basic client / provider situation. Session costs $150 and life been tipping $50. too much? not enough?

Has anyone tried a couple’s (MM) massage which became erotic? It sounds really hot so I’m curious about your experiences. I found a video on X but I can’t share links here.

It started as a normal massage. the kind of touch that made my whole body unclench.

After a few sessions, things got intense. His hands lingered, the pace slowed, and I got completely lost in it. I liked it more than I wanted to admit, the feeling of being completely cared for.

Eventually, it drifted past my comfort zone, so I stopped for six months. But I missed it.

When I came back, it was professional and distant. No lingering touch, no softness, just routine. I realized that I missed being taken care of.

I want that again, the slow, intimate touch, the sense of surrender, the HE, but I don’t know how to ask. I want to be pampered, completely, with no expectation to reciprocate.

It finally happened. See my previous post about my experiences with my MT.

This last time the massage started out as they have before. Asked me what I wanted to focus on this session and then had me laying face up on the table to start. After doing my arms and neck he focused on my chest. Previously, he hasn't really done much to my chest before and so I was pleased he was doing it this time. It felt amazing. He then folded the drape down a little further and did some work on my stomach which also felt great. I'm not sure why, maybe it is because the proximity to my penis and knowing that I'm just a few inches from his hand, but I started to get erect. Once I knew he could notice, he stopped and then started focusing on my legs. He spent a good amount of time on my legs doing long deep strokes. He was bending and stretching my legs and I was getting hard off and on for this duration.

He finally had me flip over onto my stomach and as I flipped, I made sure to tuck my penis facing down. He spent some time on my back and once again made his way down to my legs. As he starts working on the upper parts of my leg, I get a raging erection. Now, this is where things change from the previous sessions. As he is doing my inner thighs, he starts grazing the shaft and head of my penis. This only makes me harder. After he finishes the legs, the massage is almost over. He has me flip over again and says he still thinks the front of my legs need some work. At this point, I'm so hard it's almost painful. He eventually goes to the side of me and asks for permission to touch my penis. I was shocked and almost felt like it couldn't be real. I say yes and he reaches under and grabs my raging erection. He moves the drape over exposing me and this only makes me harder. He proceeded to take the next 10 minutes gently rubbing and massaging my penis. He's feeling the contours of my head, running his hands down my shaft and eventually I tell him I'm about to cum. He tells me to cum for him and I explode. It was the most amazing session I've ever had and so glad it finally built up to this moment!

42 male looking to exchange massages. Anyone interested?

I wrote about my second visit in a post a month or so back.

Yesterday I went to the same male therapist. This time I was getting stronger signals. The massage started normal, shoulders and upper back and normal draping. He did some nice glute work like last time and had my glutes exposed as he worked on them.

When he was finished with my back and covered me up to work on my legs, the draping got very “loose”. He uncovered both legs and my entire ass leaving my cock completely exposed pointed down on the table. He quickly got to work on my hamstring he’s hands were not just grazing against my cock like last time, but actually a light stroke each time his hands came up and down. My mind and cock went crazy at this.

For some background I have married and faithful to my wife for 15 years. Before marriage I had some premature ejaculation instances in some sexual encounters. Since marriage my wife and I know eachother very well and this hasn’t been an issue. This came to be a big problem during my massage! The light stroking was driving me to my limit very quickly. I tried thinking about everything non sexual but it wasn’t helping. After a bit longer I was about to shoot my load straight onto the table.

I quickly lifted my ass and tucked my cock up so I it laid flat against the table and my stomach and immediate shot my load. I was hoping this was discreet but I think he knew. He continued the massage but when it was over he left me a small towel which he hasn’t done before.

I’m torn on if I should visit him again, it was a bit embarrassing, anyone ever have this happen?

This all started when I (28m) wanted to get waxed for the first time for my wife to enjoy. I didn't know many spots that waxed men "down there", so I had to do some searching. I finally found a male who does waxing and massage.

I was very nervous for the wax (not only that it was going to hurt, but it was my real first time nude in front of another man). I should add that I got EVERYTHING waxed, so I wasn't just nude, he was all up in every part of me.

Well I finally got over my nerves and went in for my appointment, and immediately he made me feel very comfortable. I told him it was for my wife's enjoyment and he said that that is pretty normal. It was a good session. Definitely some pain, but not nearly as bad as I imagined ahead of time. Not sure I'll get waxed again, maybe... I definitely enjoyed the ass being nice and hair free 😁

But towards the end of the waxing session, he started giving me a light massage. It was FANTASTIC! He told me he also does massage on the side. I had never been massaged by a man before, and the strength difference was amazing. Nothing happened at this appointment, but I made sure to come back for a massage instead of a wax.

Fast forward a few months and I finally had a massage booked. It was nice not having to worry about being nude in front of a stranger because, of course, he had already seen everything.

I started on my stomach and the massage started out like they all do. It was amazing with how good he was. He slowly started working his way in my inner thighs, and I got hard immediately. My heart began racing, because other than the wax I had not had a man touch me down there. As he kept massaging me, I began to feel the urge to cum. I told him "I think I'm going to cum" so he chuckled and said 'not quite yet'. At that point, I think he knew how worked up I was.

He had me flip over, and he gave me the rest of the massage. Finally, at the end, he said 'now it's time we cum'. And he proceeded to stroke me very slowly with massage oil. He had his dick out, but said no need to stroke him, just enjoy my massage. He instructed me to let him know when I was close.

As promised, I was very verbal with how it felt and told him when I was close. Right as I said "I am about to cum", he (hands free) came at the same time! It was sooooo hot!

He cleaned us up, finished the massage, and it was pure bliss. I'd love to go back, but have not yet.

Don't have any jo buds, this is my only story similar. I'd love one tho....

I had a good massage yesterday. It was with an older Asian man. When I entered the room, I was shown the sheet on the table and asked to cover up with it. I stripped and laid on the table face down. I put the sheet to just above my butt. The man came in and started the massage. I said the sheet wasn't necessary. He said it was needed so we don't get in trouble. He took off the sheet for a moment. What he did was fold it up very small and placed it just enough to cover my butt. The massage was Lomi Lomi style. I never had one and it was great.

Any way, the massage was great and there were a few times my hand brushed against him for a few moments. Not a brief acdential moment but not too long either. It felt like he was teasing. He covered almost every inch of my body. He even did my groin/hips and brushed my balls a few times. The one hour was up and he said it was finished. He left and I dressed.

Afterward, we talked in the lobby for a few minutes and that I should get a massage once or twice month. I really want to try him again.

What are your thoughts? Will it go further next time?

Good afternoon. Is anybody here a RM Premium subscriber? I see a lot of hidden pics on the site. Are they just more pics of the men? Are they NSFW? I was under the assumption those pics were prohibited in that site. Besides the pics, are there any benefits to premium? Please let me know.

Ok - so I’ve always gone to Korean spas in the area. And honestly I’ve gone to cruise. The typically jerking off in the steam room and sauna maybe some oral here and there it’s honestly one of my favorite hobbies haha.

I moved away for a while to a place that didn’t have any and then I came back to my home town and started going again. Just using the facility services which was always a plus. I love the hot tub and all the different rooms.

Recently like the beginning of the year after years of going I was like ok let me try a service! So I started with just the scrub and tbh I get boners so easily - like the fact of just being there laying naked while another man is scrubbing you down even if it isn’t super sensual is sensual enough for me. I would honestly get hard as fuck. And at first I felt bad I was like no oh fuck I don’t want to ruin the experience but tbh he never seemed to mind (45 yr Korean man, no English)

My first few sessions I always questioned I’m like is he trying to get me hard!? Like is it part of the service, he would sort of graze my balls, using the scrubber on my nipples a lot. And oh I forget, while I’m facing up he puts a smaller hot towel on my dick and balls for modesty I guess and sometimes he would be rubbing be so profusely that’s the towel would rub my cock and make me so hard! I never knew if it was intentional or not. Again I’m going in there looking for a semi sensual intimate experience and he’s just there it could be totally standard procedure.

I’ve been plenty of times since my first time and have added a massage in addition to the scrub. Same things of gestures that I may be reading way to into bc I myself am going there amped up looking for a good time. Oh I forgot to mention lithe typical thing he does is towards the end of the scrub he takes the loofa and like rubs my dick! To me it comes off in a cleaning way but it’s still arousing! Lately he’s been ending the massages with rubbing my front and back bare with the milky product and I love that too! Interestingly he never does my front! He only scrubs my back and front but he never massages my front

I went recently and this time felt the most blatant his shirt is off he grazed my balls and cock a few times and tbh I find him handsome and sometimes I find myself pushing up on him! Like I was to please him to lol. Sometimes during the massage it does seem like he is humping me but idk! Again it could be me reading into it all. I love going and tbh I’m someone who doesn’t get a lot of physical intimate touch and even this where it’s very tease-y and subtle feels really fulfilling and satisfying!

I would love more from him, any other of you guys have this experience anything similar would love to hear from you. Should I try to get him to do more. Is this your typical experience at a kspa?

I woke up at 3am with the stiffest back and shoulders and I had a long day ahead. At 6am I booked an ayurvedic (Indian) massage near my house which I’ve been to several times. This is a strictly professional place where cross gender massage is not provided.

For your context on what usually happens, how these things work is they put you in a disposable langot ( traditional Indian underwear, kind of like a thong). They keep the langot on for the most of the massage and remove it only while massaging back. They place it in a way where it can be tied back before they make me flip. They generally start with belly up , flip , remove , re tie and flip back to finish the massage.

But the guy I got today had other plans.
I turned my back to him, got naked , he tied the langot and we started belly up .

After he was done with the front, he made me flip and took off the langot and initially placed it where its supposed to be tied back .

I had spread my legs a bit and cock was pointing downwards. I kind of wanted him to see it, and guess what? It worked.

He saw me getting hard I think. He took off the langot completely and kept it next to my head.

I thought he’ll tie it back when he asks be to flip, but NOOOOO. He didn’t do it ( this never happens in these places)

I flipped and my raging hard dick just stood there infront of him and he had nooo issues .

He asked me if I wanted to take a shower after the steam or if I preferred going home and showering . I was in 2 minds but asked him if there’s hot water and he said yes. He kept the massage going and didn’t really touch my dick so I was disappointed and awkward. At the end of the massage he made me sit up straight to massage my head and shoulders and stood right infront of me to do it.

While I was in the steam box he asked if I’m married , how old I am , where I live etc. And after some time he recommended that I showered there itself.

So I walked to the shower naked and didn’t close the door.

He stood there and watched me for a while but when I turned towards him he nodded and went away

I just tried to play around, and asked him to come help me dry my back. I specifically said back

He did that (with a thin disposable towel) , started putting his hands under my armpits and then my chest

And he asked me to turn around.

At first he avoided my hard dick but suddenly started wiping it . I said “ he didn’t need to do that “ and he giggled and lifted my cock and wiped my balls. He watched me until I got dressed and then we left the room for billing.

Am I reading too much into it ? Or should I take it forward next time?

Alright, so I'm like super nervous telling this story cause it's all new for me. But a few weeks ago, I had my first erotic male massage. I want to start by saying I found the guy on a legit website and I vetted him through a nearly 40 minute call, exchanging a few pics (some nude) and him attempting to calm my nerves. He stood about 6'2 ginger hairy "otter body" (his words) hard muscle, bubble butt, uncut cock, and that "fuck boy" smirk. He told me he had a boyfriend and they are both on Prep which helped ease my nerves. He than explained his job as a yoga instructor as well, and how he understood the male form and welcomed both gay and straight men. We planned in the next hour (lucky for me but nervous, he was available late night) but I was about 25 minutes out, so I showered and gave him some extra time to arrive. When he finally arrived, I discreetly met him at the hotel side door and we took the elevator to my room. Once inside, he set his stuff down and went to the shower to freshen up. He was cool leaving the door open so I can watch (shower was see thru glass)...but I went to the bed to change telling him I'm not a perv. He chuckled. We left it this way though with only the bathroom light coming into the dark room. I think that was so I felt more comfortable as his client. I asked if it was too dark, but he said no. After that he set up his phone to play some zen music and also put a special massage holder into the corner of the mattress criss crossed and we adjusted it to my neck, tightening and leveling for comfort. We were both nude at this point. He was fresh and I had dropped trousers when he was showering. I was in a lot of pain from my long travels and wanted to fully relax, so he was free to explore my whole body tonight. He told me to breathe and let me know if the pressure was okay. He never watched the clock. From here the massage begun. He worked my back, neck, and shoulders almost with a humming type noise but I didn't mind it. The best way I can describe it is like a low growl moan. He continued asking if I was okay. I told him the pressure was great. He than moved to my arms and did the classic hands intertwined thing so many discussed. I like this, feeling his strong hands touching mine and even hearing occasional cracks was highly intimate. From there, he massaged down my back past my ass to my legs, but I can feel a wetness and I know it is precum dripping from his cock head. So anyway, he does my legs and feet and does more holding poses on my arms, his semi hard uncut cock resting on near my ass as he essentially is holding me. He tells me to enjoy it...that's it's like a bear hug. After this, he goes down my back again and I can feel his precum, wet mustache from kissing or licking down...I just let it happen. He tells me I can flip over, but I told him to go a bit longer cause I was tensing up. He does so doing the glute massage now, it hurt so bad but he seemed to really like my ass. This was clear by how he rubbed his mouth over it and grabbed my ass cheeks, giving them a squeeze and going "mmm". I eventually decide to flip. Once flipped over, he keeps kissing and licking up my body, even massaging my chest and stomach- from here...the gay shit really revs up. I'm exhausted and had been for days now with little sleep on my travel vacation and long clubbing nights- I'm tired but at his mercy. He puts his hand on my cock which isn't hard and ask if this is ok? I said "uh...sure". I can feel him now licking my balls and slapping my dick against my stomach still not hard, not even semi really. Than, he just does it...he licks up the shaft and takes my entire cock into his mouth. At first I feel bad, cause I know it's not even semi, but than the way this dude blows me...it just felt like nothing I've ever experienced. Arguably the best head of my entire life. I begin to throb in his mouth and I started moaning "Oh fuck, oh fuck yeah". This pleases him and he doubles his efforts bobbing up and down on my fully bricked cock, than stroking it more a bit. After that, he moved up to me and started nibbling my ear and kissing my neck...than eventually his tongue was down my throat. I was breathing so hard. I told him through the kissing that this was "so fucking gay and I just paid for a massage". He laughed and said his I was doing good. We kept kissing. After that, we moved to the middle of the bed and he was on his back. I started kissing him this time, legs on either side of him- I was too horny now. After that, I turned opposite of him and started sucking his uncut cock. I told him I'm sorry if I wasn't good at it, but I can still hear that noise my throat made...glump glump glump...and eventually his tongue slid into my tight hairy virgin asshole. I know I freaked out a bit because he told me to relax. I had never had anything in there. He grabbed my hips to rim even deeper. At this point, I asked him permission to dom before we have to just stop...it was becoming too much. He said ok. Once I had the green light, for me, finally- the fun actually started. I told him he was a faggot and to eat my fucking ass. It just cams natural, I was horny for a sub. I moved from straddling to legit squatting and sitting on his face. His tongue was so fuckin deep in my asshole and he loved being degraded like the fag he was, even sniffing inside. I kept verbally degrading him as he ate me out, than we flipped and I ate his hole. I can't describe how nervous I was, but I really got in there. I just imagined it was pussy so I didn't freak out. He told me I don't have to, but that turned to moans as I got deep. He tasted amazing and his cheeks bounced nice. He wasn't super hairy and it was dark but his cheeks jiggled so hard when I begin to spank him hard...and eventually finger his ginger hole between eating it. He kept sucking me and I was in dom mode so I told him to, "suck my fucking toes!". He told me he had limits. I told him, "you want me to cum, right?" He nodded, so I sweetened the deal with the mention of a tip and he still didn't want to at first...almost like he might gag once they neared his mouth- but eventually he sucked both toes on both feet while I stroked my cock, now dripping with precum. From there, I kept eating him out while he sucked me off. I got closer and closer and than I said "keep your fucking faggot mouth on that straight cock" He said "Yes Sir" and than boom...ropes and ropes of my load go down his throat and he swallows all of it. "Holy shit" he says after, "That was...a lot". He grins and gets up to go, but I ask him to stay and he agrees to cuddle a bit. I kiss on his chest and nibble his ear- than listen to his heart beat. He tells me about how him and his boyfriend do a four hand massage too if I thought that was good. I tell him maybe next time. Eventually I yawn and say I'm tired and send the cash app tip. He collects his stuff and tells me to get some rest, a final kiss...and once the door closes...I feel transformed. I text him some time later and ask why he didn't just fuck me. He told me he was respecting my boundaries and that just cause he didn't cum, didn't mean he didn't enjoy our time. I imagine he wanted too though so bad. He told me there are other doppelganger of him all over the city, but I assured him he's the only ginger guy or girl I've been with and he made it special. The next time I go to his city is in July. Should I let him pop my cherry or should I savor this as an incredible dipping your feet in the water- one time thing? Also if there's any shit typos, I apologize...I was super nervous writing this. Ok I told someone...I can breathe now lol.

I'm just a guy and not a professional masseur. A buddy and I hang out every so often and he's mentioned he'd like to try me massaging him. What kind of oil would you recommend? We're always in a hotel so I don't want to ruin their sheets. And is the recommendation something that wouldn't taste bad?

I look forward to hearing what y'all recommend. Thank you all so much!