Brat-switches--what do your dom/me sides look like?
I have only recently realised I am a switch alongside being a brat. It took me awhile because I am really not a brat-tamer and so don't like wrangling other brats, which were the only kind of submissive I encountered at the time. I was also inexperienced which lead me to feeling too unsure to dom. Within the last year I have wanted to explore my dom side more, I am incredibly emotionally sadistic and love to make people "break" I think pleasure-doming/orgasm denial/overstimulation and edging appeal to me most as a dom (I am also chronically ill and physically can't do as much of the physically overpowering side, plus I like the idea of people willingly offering submission without me having to fight them. I am kind of "bossy" no matter wether I'm subbing or domming and like ordering people around and making them do things for me, kind of like a spoilt princess lol--obviously still within peoples tolerance ofc). I saw there are actually quite a lot of brat-switch posts--and people--in this sub and wanted to see what type of dom/me my fellow brat-switches are and what kind of scenes you like and also what "dom space" feels like to you if you go to a specific headspace? I do notice that my subspace is a much more concrete thing but maybe that is common? I am a little more nervous about domming because someone offering you their submission is such a precious thing and I am kind of terrified to make mistakes with that. Any and all anecdotes would be greatly appreciated, thanks for reading! :)