u/Sleeps-With-Eyes

Hello everyone, I have been pondering over what my actual sexuality is and what I can do to take the next logical step. I consider myself attracted to women, but considering I am not really equpped to do it with penetrative sex, it seems as though the idea with being with a woman seems to somewhat lose its luster if that makes sense. Dont get me wrong, when I see pretty girl, i feel fluttering in my stomach, but in my mind I feel like I keep reminding myself "Yeah, she is hot but you probably will not be able to get hard for her and last long, so why even think about it" Which has become something of a psychological switch for me, eventually I began wondering if I was A-sexual or something similar to that, so as one does, I began experimenting and exploring more nieche genres of porn and ive discovered that I am not alone in this problem so it would be nice if someone wants to talk about this predicament and share their own thoughts or experiences or perspective on the matter as I want to see which role I fit in as a whiteboi. Also would be nice to potentially make some friends as I am chatty person.

Hello everyone, I have been pondering over what my actual sexuality is and what I can do to take the next logical step. I consider myself attracted to women, but considering I am not really equpped to do it with penetrative sex, it seems as though the idea with being with a woman seems to somewhat lose its luster if that makes sense. Dont get me wrong, when I see pretty girl, i feel fluttering in my stomach, but in my mind I feel like I keep reminding myself "Yeah, she is hot but you probably will not be able to get hard for her and last long, so why even think about it" Which has become something of a psychological switch for me, eventually I began wondering if I was A-sexual or something similar to that, so as one does, I began experimenting and exploring more nieche genres of porn and ive discovered that I am not alone in this problem so it would be nice if someone wants to talk about this predicament and share their own thoughts or experiences or perspective on the matter as I want to see which role I fit in as a whiteboi. Also would be nice to potentially make some friends as I am chatty person.

Looking back at what my view history looks like I cant help but notice how my viewing habbits have changed or should I say evolved over the years. I have found that BBC has always been a presence in the videos ever since I discovered plain ole' Interracial sex, after that I ended up discovering interracial cuckolding and that ended up being my go to porn until I was in my mid 20's I would say, But I think that the biggest impact on my prefferences started when I discovered Pussyfree and censored porn, not to mention Humiliation vids ended up leaving a big impact, mainly around rejection themes, so much so that nowadays I feel like a tang of guilt when I watch porn with women in it. I just wanted to discuss that with other fellow people if they are facing a similar issue.

Looking back at what my view history looks like I cant help but notice how my viewing habbits have changed or should I say evolved over the years. I have found that BBC has always been a presence in the videos ever since I discovered plain ole' Interracial sex, after that I ended up discovering interracial cuckolding and that ended up being my go to porn until I was in my mid 20's I would say, But I think that the biggest impact on my prefferences started when I discovered Pussyfree and censored porn, not to mention Humiliation vids ended up leaving a big impact, mainly around rejection themes, so much so that nowadays I feel like a tang of guilt when I watch porn with women in it. I just wanted to discuss that with other fellow people if they are facing a similar issue.

I feel like my dating life has been stuck in a loop as the same thing happens over and over again. I match with a cute girl on a dating app, we start chatting and we find out we have a lot in common in terms of hobbies, we go out, we have a good time, after a few dates, we start getting more and more serious. We end up kissing at some point and go into a relationship....then the moment for intimacy comes....and I pussy out... Naturally the girl asks me if there is some problem or if im not attracted to her or something like that, then It always boils down to me either wimping out and cutting everything off. Rinse and repeat, I always end up alone. Ive been thinking about whether or not it would be best to start opening up to girls about my BBC addiction and performance anxiety, its either that...or giving up and going on Grindr. I was just curious to see if anyone is also having these issues or would like to talk about it

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I feel like my dating life has been stuck in a loop as the same thing happens over and over again. I match with a cute girl on Tinder, we start chatting and we find out we have a lot in common in terms of hobbies, we go out, we have a good time, after a few dates, we start getting more and more serious. We end up kissing at some point and go into a relationship....then the moment for intimacy comes....and I pussy out... Naturally the girl asks me if there is some problem or if im not attracted to her or something like that, then It always boils down to me either wimping out and cutting everything off. Rinse and repeat, I always end up alone. Ive been thinking about whether or not it would be best to start opening up to girls about my BBC addiction and performance anxiety, its either that...or giving up and going on Grindr. I was just curious to see if anyone else is having the same troubles, any advice or discussion would be more than welcome

I feel like my dating life has been stuck in a loop as the same thing happens over and over again. I match with a cute girl on Tinder, we start chatting and we find out we have a lot in common in terms of hobbies, we go out, we have a good time, after a few dates, we start getting more and more serious. We end up kissing at some point and go into a relationship....then the moment for intimacy comes....and I pussy out... Naturally the girl asks me if there is some problem or if im not attracted to her or something like that, then It always boils down to me either wimping out and cutting everything off. Rinse and repeat, I always end up alone. Ive been thinking about whether or not it would be best to start opening up to girls about my BBC addiction and performance anxiety, its either that...or giving up and going on Grindr. I was just curious to see if anyone else is having the same troubles, any advice or discussion would be more than welcome