u/Smiling90s

Happy Friday gentlemen (no need to read on if you are not one, seriously)! Beautiful day in California.🌞

I'm hoping to connect with someone who lives in Monterey, Carmel, PG, the valley, etc. Although I no longer live down there (born and raised) I frequently visit for family and friends. Feeling shy about this, but I’d love to get to know a gentleman down there and see where a friendship might lead.

I’m a pretty, easygoing gal with a generally happy personality and a positive outlook on life. I take pride in who I am, the life I live, and taking care of myself. I tend to lean girly. I'm your average white girl, not a supermodel or Sydney Sweeney type, but I'm rarely worried about a picture swap. I enjoy good conversation, humor, and people who don’t take themselves too seriously. I love being with my little girl, walking, shopping, time with girlfriends and family, and my job. I like to take things slow in life; good things take time.

The most important part of my life is being a mom, and that will always come first. Because of that, I appreciate people who understand responsibility, patience, and that constant messaging isn’t appealing. I prefer to get to know someone slowly and let things develop naturally instead of forcing a connection.

Taking care of your mental and physical health is important to me, and no, I don’t mean having a six pack (not my thing). I mean someone who takes care of themselves, cares about their overall health, handles stress like an adult, and generally has their life together. I tend to be attracted to men who are established, successful, generally busy (not glued to their phone), and proud of the life they’ve built. Intelligence, hard work, and valuing family and real life are very attractive to me. Please be 50+. I enjoy gentlemen who understand sarcasm, playful banter, patience, and being comfortable in their own skin. We don’t need to have everything in common to get along, differences are interesting.

I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a label. I’m open to seeing where a connection goes IF it feels easy and natural. I’m looking for something deeper than a strictly sexual relationship, that’s never been my style. More like a meaningful, secret connection, that feels like having a secret BF/GF. What can I say, I love love. I am married, though, and not looking to change that. 🙃

Sound like you?... Share a little bit about yourself, general location, age, what you do for work, ect. and something you're looking forward to this weekend. I'm actually headed your way (to Monterey) to see Chelsea Handler with a girlfriend.

Have a great day! 🤍 Be kind!!!