32 [M4F] #europe #online - Dom looking for a friendship mixed with a D/s dynamic
Hey there 😄
I'm a 32-year-old guy from Spain who has been around the BDSM world for the past few years. I started on the submissive side, but in time I discovered that the Dominant side of the slash is something I wanted to explore on (even tho you could consider me technically a switch with the right person).
My SFW Side
Outside of kink, some of the things that I like are:
- Hiking or walking along the coast. Sometimes alone to reset, sometimes with a close friend chatting about everything and nothing.
- Watching movies or TV shows. I enjoy almost every genre, from flick action movies to slice of life, character driven movies. Everything, except horror.
- Beer tasting. I love trying different and new beers when I have the opportunity. Spending time with friends and family. I am a big family person and lucky to have a solid core of friends.
Even if I like spending time with friends and my family, I'm an introvert at heart. I also work out a bit at home, and I like reflecting on how to keep growing personally and professionally. For lifestyle context: I'm child-free by choice, with no interest in having kids in the future.
My NSFW / D-Side
I consider myself a pleasure Dom who values structure and emotional connection. I want something playful but structured, and build something together through communication and growth.
I don't like to focus much on my kinks as I don't have any musts. I believe that every dynamic is different, and I prefer to see what things we are comfortable exploring, the things we would like to try, and see how those mutual interests shape up the dynamic.
What I prefer to talk upfront are limits, which I think is much more important and can be deal-breakers. The following are non-negotiable hard limits that I would not include in a dynamic.
- Scat, vomit, gore/vore.
- Inflicting hard or long-lasting pain.
- Medical play, especially needles.
- Public play with non-consenting participants.
- Brats (playful teasing is fine and encouraged, intentional disobedience is not).
What I'm looking for
I would like to meet a woman who is interested in someone who will be there to listen and help when needed, hold you accountable with care, and bond with the dynamic as a base layer. A woman that values structure and thrives when there is someone she can trust, and who considers submission to be a part of how she connects with someone. A dynamic like this only works if both participants are open and proactive to be able to create something meaningful for the both of us.
That said, I understand that life and its circumstances will always take priority. This dynamic should grow around our realities, adapting to what is possible to do, and respecting the balance between commitment to one another and real life.
When it comes to communication, I take privacy seriously and believe in moving at a pace that feels safe for both of us. I like a more personal approach than texts after a while, exchanging audios and calls as it helps to create a more personal connection. For pictures or videos, I’m comfortable sharing once mutual trust is established. The same from you would be welcomed, but never expected.
If you want to reach out tell me what piqued your interest about this post, what you are seeking, and something fun about yourself! 🖤