Good Morning/Afternoon/Evening to you,
I want to start off by thanking you for taking the time to click on my post out of all these disparate Reddit men out there. We know you have many choices in your Reddit reading and we thank you for flying with us 😊
Now lets start off by telling you about me…..
I’ve read that you start off with the best to hook’em right away… (sorry I don’t share D picks if that what you think is about to happen 😊 Apparently, I’m the only one who doesn’t from the way you ladies talk.) For me the best part of me is my…yep personability (no I’m not ugly shut up) I am that guy you mom really liked when you were in your bad boy phase. The guy she wished you would have married. I’m companionate, empathetic, caring and I put others before me consistently. I’ve been an amazing parent who truly believed my kids were my entire purpose on earth until they abandoned me for partners of their own (so happy for them (grrrr)). Oh, and I have a bit of a superman complex that I have toned down quite a bit over the years. I will not try to save you unless you are in physical danger now 😊 I am a very confident man with maybe a slight bit of cockiness. I am not a fan of arrogance though. I strongly dislike people who feel superior to others based on looks, money, family…ect..ect.. We are all one people in my eyes.
[editorial……this going to be long. Sorry I talk a lot. I am overly social. AND I REALLY NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO….(shhh too much sharing too soon (burry this part deep down inside)) (erase later) Sorry but yea I talk a bit, I am overly aware of my own feelings, and I am way too honest and sharing about them so be prepared. You’re all just lucky you can’t hear the inner voice 😊
Ok so we got that boring mushy personality part out of the way now… My prime hobby is fitness. I feel like I am truly myself in a gym. I have always felt this way but the kids and all I had to leave the lifestyle for a bit because they needed me. Now the little angels (BRATZ) are grown and on their own I have very much returned. I was 320lbs 2 years ago. I knew fitness but also new that if I were not ready to give it my all it was not worth doing yet. Well today I’m 5’10 205 and 12% bodyfat (that’s impressive if you don’t know bodyfat % 😊 ) I have a very lean muscular frame. Now I am looking to put on 10-20 more lbs of lean muscle mass. I am in the gym 6 days a week. It is a priority for me, but I do need to cut that down and realize I’m no longer a 20yo kid. Easier said than done. Considering a Bodybuilding show in 2027 but I don’t know if I have the desire to hit sub 6% bodyfat again. It’s not fun.
I also golf a bit. I’m not great but I enjoy it and as I think I mentioned I’m a very social person so golf can be a very social fun time…. especially if I’m beating you 😊 I like all sorts of music but I think 80’s and 90’s R&B is my thing.
Huge Dodgers fan 😊 I coached baseball and softball so I love the sport (fastpitch softball is amazing)
Ok so the best part is done (ME) let’s talk about what I’m looking for:
I am ideally looking for a very long term FWB. I don’t want someone who is going to ghost me at the first sight of minor boredom. (I mean with me talking this much it would probably be annoyance not boredom but that too). This is not some online only thing…I WANT ALL THE SMOKE!!!! I think most people (don’t say women! don’t say women! (idiot you said it)) in here are trying to find something too perfect. In nature this simply does not exist. We will have ups and downs. As good as I hype myself up, I am far far far far (that’s enough) from perfect. REALLY FAR (shhh) My subconscious voice is begging to list all my imperfections’, but I have to leave some mysteries for you to find. My point is you really want this you will not ghost are the first sight of trouble. We can work issues out instead of running from them. I promise you once we head down this road together, I’m not going nowhere. I am more than willing to work through whatever issues we come across (even that nose (you’re ruining it and her nose is kind of cute))
I would like a very real relationship. Not some cold F-buddy who is there just for one thing and then gone. I want someone one who misses me when I’m not talking to them. Someone who desires to see me even when she knows she can’t at that moment. I truly want to be wanted 😊mind body and soul. Being married is a much. I want you to know that even though we don’t always want them we do have limitations. I’m not looking to leave. Who knows what a few years will bring but right now I am not there. I want to give each other what is missing in our current lives, Passion, Desire, Longlining, Excitement. Could it evolve more. Who knows.
Specifics about you:
· Age: I don’t date older women. I am not into age gap kinks either. So don’t be in your 20’s. If you’re in your 30’s be mature and lie to me so I at least think mid/later 30s 😊 40’s yes please 50’s lie and tell me you younger than me 😊 I am not looking to be that old creepy guy with the young chick.
· Appearance: I talk about my love of fitness but I find most forms of the female body beautiful. Fit-yes, Muscular-yes, Mombod- yes mommy (too creepy?) curvy-yes (your milkshake brings this boy to the yard)
· Race: my prior dating pool looks like the United Nations. If you like white guys I like you. If not you’re missing out.
· Politics: I was raised very conservative. However, my love of humans in general has shown me Maga is evil and Trump an evil idiot. If you agree with that, we will get along fine.
· Religion: Not going there but I am willing to discuss
I don’t trust the internet so Ideally, I want to meet for coffee and chat as early as you feel comfortable meeting me in a public place. I am not trying to rush us just know I have met a lot of scammers, and I cannot fully trust anyone is what they say before this happens. Sad because I want to trust
When you reply let me know a little about you. Describe yourself emotionally and physically. Feel free to include a photo of yourself. If I feel we might click I will send a few of me back to gage interest. I want to make sure you are into it before I choose anyone. I fall for the person and the emotions I feel but I realize outer images are very important to most so I want that upfront. You don’t have to send a pic right away but I would like to see one before I make a choice. No filters because our imperfections are what make us beautiful.
Lastly if you don’t know it look up the song “I wanna know” from Joe. That’s exactly what I’m looking for. If you can listen to that song and not wanna feel like that about someone I’m not your guy.
Hope to hear from you soon. I promise I’m not as weird or cocky as I come off in this weird post 😊