u/SoCal_Silverback

52 [M4F] #Los Angeles / SoBay, Experienced Spanker/Disciplinarian open to female play partners

Hello Kinky Friends,

Me: 52M, tech sales professional with a master's degree in engineering, reasonably fit, cleanly divorced, father of a few teens & SoBay homeowner. I can host. I’m a hardwired spanko experienced at providing everything from light role-play spankings to more serous disciplinary sessions. I enjoy creating the minor embarrassment associated with getting a spanking, but I’m not into humiliation. I’m here to hurt your butt, not your feelings! My goal is for you to leave with a sore butt and a sense of accomplishment for taking a solid spanking.

Open communication and enthusiastic consent are foundational to my play time. Everything will be negotiated beforehand while we have “The Talk”, and all limits will be respected. I love aftercare and enjoy cuddling with partners who feel the same.

My vanilla hobbies include weight training, diving of all sorts (rec, tech, free, spearing), growing mushrooms, photography, nature, motorcycles and cooking.  I’m handy with tools and working on things.  I’m passionate about learning, and I’m **always** getting into some new hobby or interest. 

You: 25+ female that needs or deserves a good spanking. Willing to exchange photos and meet somewhere public for a vibe check after a bit of chatting. Looking for in-person play, not online or a penpal. Ideal candidates are local, closer to my station in life, and match my energy regarding intelligence and fitness.

Honestly and integrity are core principles for me, so I don’t get involved with cheaters or tolerate them in my inner circle. ENM relationships will require clearance from the other party before we play.

Happy to share more via DM. Please reach out if it sounds like we may be a fit. If we’re not a fit, may you find what you’re looking for!

Cheers,
SoCal_Silverback

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